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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 659580" data-attributes="member: 17461">That is how D H is, Copa.  He is offended that people would ever see him as someone who would pay for them.  Nor does he expect anyone to pay for him.  He does not feel one bit badly about this.  Our children were so offended when I had been on the site long enough to finally say no money.  But D H was very right in this.  True friendship is based on respect.  It was wrong of the man to put M in that position.It was wrong of M to have put you in that position but you handled it beautifully.I am learning to say no, too.I like the feeling of saying no very much.  I am worth it Copa, and so are you.Cedar</blockquote>