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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 659624" data-attributes="member: 1550">I really believe that many people here have alluded to having bad family problems but they just don't want to post them here, which is why they haven't. It is hard to open up. To some I'm sure it is even harder to do it on a forum. Some are not ready to share. Some will never share and that's their business even if they don't even share with a therapist or minister or good friend. That is their business. Some still feel afraid that it's wrong to say their family is made up of not-so-nice people.&quot;Doctor, my mother wasn't a bad mother. I was just a terrible kid.&quot;Remember, that was what I told every psychiatrist and therapist when I first went for help. It took forever for me to admit that this was a ridiculous statement. I never could have shared then. I would have been appalled that anyone thought their own mother was POISON!I feel people will post if they want to and if they aren't it's because for differing reasons, they just can't or don't want to.I mean, I think everyone knows they are welcome to join in.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 659624, member: 1550"] I really believe that many people here have alluded to having bad family problems but they just don't want to post them here, which is why they haven't. It is hard to open up. To some I'm sure it is even harder to do it on a forum. Some are not ready to share. Some will never share and that's their business even if they don't even share with a therapist or minister or good friend. That is their business. Some still feel afraid that it's wrong to say their family is made up of not-so-nice people. "Doctor, my mother wasn't a bad mother. I was just a terrible kid." Remember, that was what I told every psychiatrist and therapist when I first went for help. It took forever for me to admit that this was a ridiculous statement. I never could have shared then. I would have been appalled that anyone thought their own mother was POISON! I feel people will post if they want to and if they aren't it's because for differing reasons, they just can't or don't want to. I mean, I think everyone knows they are welcome to join in. [/QUOTE]

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