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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 659760" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I realize I'm still pumped from my therapy session, but I realized today that we do not need to own the toxicity of anyone else. We own our own stuff, not our mother's, not our sister's, not our brother's, our aunt's, our kidssing cousin's...THEY own it, whether they accept responsibility for their own crapola or not. It is their own, not ours. What we do that is wrong we can fix and offer amends for. And others can chose to accept or reject our offering. But we do not need to make amends or to own anything that was done to us. What others did to hurt ourselves or others...that is their dirty laundry.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, Operation Oblivion is going well and doing my stress and life a lot of good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 659760, member: 1550"] I realize I'm still pumped from my therapy session, but I realized today that we do not need to own the toxicity of anyone else. We own our own stuff, not our mother's, not our sister's, not our brother's, our aunt's, our kidssing cousin's...THEY own it, whether they accept responsibility for their own crapola or not. It is their own, not ours. What we do that is wrong we can fix and offer amends for. And others can chose to accept or reject our offering. But we do not need to make amends or to own anything that was done to us. What others did to hurt ourselves or others...that is their dirty laundry. At any rate, Operation Oblivion is going well and doing my stress and life a lot of good. [/QUOTE]
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