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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 659946" data-attributes="member: 17461">Copa.I am so proud and happy for you!Defiantly proud, and defiantly happy.&nbsp; I love that you and M are moving and choosing change and creating this new thing.&nbsp; I love it that you are putting the dogs on a bathroom schedule.&nbsp; I just loved hearing that.&nbsp; It has to do with family feelings.&nbsp; Something to do with really getting it that we have everything we need and more, and that we can do and choose and take our lives anywhere we want to and never mistreat those we love, no matter how we have been mistreated, ourselves.***No more guilt; no grieving what is lost so deeply that we are not able to live fully and with great joy in this one, precious life.&nbsp; We all have people in our lives who have watched us suffer and stayed right there with us and cherished and became angry and frustrated and were hurt to their cores by our stupid families of origin...but they stayed, Copa and SWOT.They stayed and they loved and cherished and they picked us and they stood up for us and they picked us up and dusted us off and listened to us cry and loved us anyway, every time.Maybe, we are extraordinary people.That could be true.Maybe they are extraordinary people, as well.&nbsp; To have been able to stay with us through those storms of pathologic hatred our families of origin hose us down with ~ man.&nbsp; I was thinking Copa, of the way your sister treated M, looking him up and down like that.&nbsp; We needed Jabber to step in for us, right?&nbsp; &quot;I wave my panties at your Auntie; now go away, or I will insult you again!&quot;&nbsp; However that Monty Python clip went.:O)Cedar</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 659946, member: 17461"] Copa. I am so proud and happy for you! Defiantly proud, and defiantly happy. I love that you and M are moving and choosing change and creating this new thing. I love it that you are putting the dogs on a bathroom schedule. I just loved hearing that. It has to do with family feelings. Something to do with really getting it that we have everything we need and more, and that we can do and choose and take our lives anywhere we want to and never mistreat those we love, no matter how we have been mistreated, ourselves. *** No more guilt; no grieving what is lost so deeply that we are not able to live fully and with great joy in this one, precious life. We all have people in our lives who have watched us suffer and stayed right there with us and cherished and became angry and frustrated and were hurt to their cores by our stupid families of origin...but they stayed, Copa and SWOT. They stayed and they loved and cherished and they picked us and they stood up for us and they picked us up and dusted us off and listened to us cry and loved us anyway, every time. Maybe, we are extraordinary people. That could be true. Maybe they are extraordinary people, as well. To have been able to stay with us through those storms of pathologic hatred our families of origin hose us down with ~ man. I was thinking Copa, of the way your sister treated M, looking him up and down like that. We needed Jabber to step in for us, right? "I wave my panties at your Auntie; now go away, or I will insult you again!" However that Monty Python clip went. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]

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