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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 660037" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I know! How courageous were we.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That is too often, Copa. I went once every two weeks. I saw him for something like six months <em>and look what he did to me in that short time.</em></p><p></p><p>Roar.</p><p></p><p>Plus: This person was being paid to reparent you. That means unravel the harm done, parent the child within with compassion and with limitless, all encompassing love and tenderness and teaching. Blame is not supposed to enter in when we are paying someone to freaking reparent us.</p><p></p><p>Nor are our apparently hitherto unsuspected manipulatory capacities.</p><p></p><p>Ahem.</p><p></p><p>I am really mad at your therapist because I don't know why I cannot stand up and be angry at mine.</p><p></p><p>Ha!</p><p></p><p>But the feelings still apply!</p><p></p><p>Oh, good.</p><p></p><p>I have had that first therapist under my skin for entirely too long.</p><p></p><p>Plus he owes me money.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, that is why it is a good, good idea not to see a therapist. Trusting someone else to interpret us is not a good idea. We need to reinterpret ourselves, taking or leaving the process at our own speed and to the depth we feel safe plumbing.</p><p></p><p>Of course it wasn't you, Copa.</p><p></p><p>We <em>are</em> female. It's like carrying the shame of the male therapists attraction for him when he knew darn well we were girls before he ever took us on. I will say it again: If they could not do what they promised us they could, then why make the promise in the first place and above all <em>why continue to take our money once they realized they were no longer able to provide the service advertised, not because of some lack of effort or shortcoming on our parts, but because they couldn't keep their stupid hands off us in their minds?</em></p><p></p><p>They knew we were girls, going in.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps people like that are sociopaths or voyeurs or some other unsavory something.</p><p></p><p>It really does tick me off that these people are allowed to be out there holding licenses and taking people's money like legitimized charlatans.</p><p></p><p>For heaven's sake, are we never to be safe anywhere, those of us who were not safe in our childhood's?!?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 660037, member: 17461"] I know! How courageous were we. That is too often, Copa. I went once every two weeks. I saw him for something like six months [I]and look what he did to me in that short time.[/I] Roar. Plus: This person was being paid to reparent you. That means unravel the harm done, parent the child within with compassion and with limitless, all encompassing love and tenderness and teaching. Blame is not supposed to enter in when we are paying someone to freaking reparent us. Nor are our apparently hitherto unsuspected manipulatory capacities. Ahem. I am really mad at your therapist because I don't know why I cannot stand up and be angry at mine. Ha! But the feelings still apply! Oh, good. I have had that first therapist under my skin for entirely too long. Plus he owes me money. Well, that is why it is a good, good idea not to see a therapist. Trusting someone else to interpret us is not a good idea. We need to reinterpret ourselves, taking or leaving the process at our own speed and to the depth we feel safe plumbing. Of course it wasn't you, Copa. We [I]are[/I] female. It's like carrying the shame of the male therapists attraction for him when he knew darn well we were girls before he ever took us on. I will say it again: If they could not do what they promised us they could, then why make the promise in the first place and above all [I]why continue to take our money once they realized they were no longer able to provide the service advertised, not because of some lack of effort or shortcoming on our parts, but because they couldn't keep their stupid hands off us in their minds?[/I] They knew we were girls, going in. Perhaps people like that are sociopaths or voyeurs or some other unsavory something. It really does tick me off that these people are allowed to be out there holding licenses and taking people's money like legitimized charlatans. For heaven's sake, are we never to be safe anywhere, those of us who were not safe in our childhood's?!? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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