Such an interesting thread. I've been a member here for so long but sometimes absent for long periods of time. I know some of the names from way back and as new members pop up, there is always a different and unique twist to someone's story. While trying to protect everyone's privacy, it gets difficult to write about things "generically" and we are left with basic words to try and describe behaviors or actions. I personally take no offence to the terminologies used here and have seen them change over the years. I'm just happy to have a place where I can go and not be judged or criticized. We are all trying to cope the best way we can - support in whatever form (especially from our "peer group") is so greatly appreciated. Many of us are ostracized from family, friends and colleagues because our home life is so very different from the norm. Here we are able to express ourselves more freely (and sometimes need to do it quickly in the midst of crisis) and the words/acronyms may not be what someone else would use.
As far as ratings - I just like seeing the pretty colours of the icons. Rainbows, stars and hearts! So primary and so uplifting!
This place has been my lifeline and I am comforted that at any time I can use a "lifeline" and "I can call a friend"!
