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<blockquote data-quote="Weary Mother" data-source="post: 693367" data-attributes="member: 20487"><p>Hi there time to let go! I feel for you. I also feel that I have a broken heard as if my child died. I think I finally understand the need and purpose of letting go, but it is a daily commitment. Sometimes a minute by minute one because I am strong one minute and then a crises comes up and I am thrown into an emergency that just seems to happen all at once, blindsiding me. I do see that loving them but letting them go and allowing the course of things to resolve can serve a purpose. If my daughter had cancer or an illness which was life threatening, she would get help, and I would be by her side. But in this case, the help she wants is always on her terms and she doesn't recognize the cancer that is eating her life away. So I am forced to stay out of it when in fact I would love to be able to help her if the help actually helped. But any help I give so far has not resulted in a stable life. So, I detach, cry and hope.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Weary Mother, post: 693367, member: 20487"] Hi there time to let go! I feel for you. I also feel that I have a broken heard as if my child died. I think I finally understand the need and purpose of letting go, but it is a daily commitment. Sometimes a minute by minute one because I am strong one minute and then a crises comes up and I am thrown into an emergency that just seems to happen all at once, blindsiding me. I do see that loving them but letting them go and allowing the course of things to resolve can serve a purpose. If my daughter had cancer or an illness which was life threatening, she would get help, and I would be by her side. But in this case, the help she wants is always on her terms and she doesn't recognize the cancer that is eating her life away. So I am forced to stay out of it when in fact I would love to be able to help her if the help actually helped. But any help I give so far has not resulted in a stable life. So, I detach, cry and hope. [/QUOTE]
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