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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Fairy dust" data-source="post: 766667" data-attributes="member: 25457"><p>I so agree with Copa. Oftentimes I have found myself trying to save, make better things for my son. I have come to realize that has not helped him. It was my way to self soothe, to make me feel better because I was “helping”. I had to finally face my pain, the awfulness of it all, and how we have no control over our adult kids or their choices. I had to learn through tears, heart ache and self awareness to let go. I believe that has freed me, and also my son.   Oh what a hard journey this has been and still is.  But I have to be true to me And finally honour me! Hugs to you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>