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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 748956" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>What a tome! He is well-written and articulate. Talk about passive aggressive!Well. What about himself? Will he step up? That is the question.</p><p>Who here needs to recognize their worth to live as a human being? And their responsibility to seek this.</p><p>This is a mean, below the belt threat. Fine. Don't forget it. If this helps him begin to learn to put one foot in front of the other to solve a problem, so be it.</p><p>So. Here ends the passive aggressivity and out come the knives.</p><p></p><p>This is inevitable. The thing front and center is this: He has cared less about your welfare. He prefers that this paradigm continues. It can't. Eventually you will get sick and die. We all do. Either sons find a way to survive from their own efforts, or not. Sooner or later they will have to. It might as well be now. While there is still time for you to live a life that gives you peace and tranquility and self-respect and autonomy and well-being. And they can have this too. But you can't fund their lives forever. Nobody can. </p><p></p><p>This is the terrain you are fighting on. Fighting for. That they have self-respect, autonomy, and well-being. And that you do, too.</p><p></p><p>You are doing this. Bravo. </p><p></p><p>If son wants to explore options to the way he is choosing to live, which is crying and moaning, and helplessness and meanness, he will stop with this drama, and seek out the emergency rooms, soup kitchens, case workers and rescue missions. This is the life he is choosing. These are the resources for people in their position. Not Mamas. Who are at the end of their rope, and need respite and refuge, and are seeking it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 748956, member: 18958"] What a tome! He is well-written and articulate. Talk about passive aggressive!Well. What about himself? Will he step up? That is the question. Who here needs to recognize their worth to live as a human being? And their responsibility to seek this. This is a mean, below the belt threat. Fine. Don't forget it. If this helps him begin to learn to put one foot in front of the other to solve a problem, so be it. So. Here ends the passive aggressivity and out come the knives. This is inevitable. The thing front and center is this: He has cared less about your welfare. He prefers that this paradigm continues. It can't. Eventually you will get sick and die. We all do. Either sons find a way to survive from their own efforts, or not. Sooner or later they will have to. It might as well be now. While there is still time for you to live a life that gives you peace and tranquility and self-respect and autonomy and well-being. And they can have this too. But you can't fund their lives forever. Nobody can. This is the terrain you are fighting on. Fighting for. That they have self-respect, autonomy, and well-being. And that you do, too. You are doing this. Bravo. If son wants to explore options to the way he is choosing to live, which is crying and moaning, and helplessness and meanness, he will stop with this drama, and seek out the emergency rooms, soup kitchens, case workers and rescue missions. This is the life he is choosing. These are the resources for people in their position. Not Mamas. Who are at the end of their rope, and need respite and refuge, and are seeking it. [/QUOTE]
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