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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 752573" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Then don't believe it! Where is it written that you have to believe such a painful thing? This is not a reality. It is a fear. It is a threat. It could happen, yes. Just like all of the worst possible things that we try to never think of.</p><p></p><p>To my way of thinking, that you would not go there, not go to the worst possible thing, is NOT denial. It's faith. Faith in love. </p><p></p><p>Have you thought of the possibility that your son feels compelled to push you away because you won't let go? Not as in "forever and forever." But to give him a break to mend. He's saying to you,<em> let me be. I need you to let me be.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>But he accepted safe harbor at your sister's house. Do you see the contradiction? </p><p></p><p>I don't see the either the inevitability or the probability that he will be forever rejecting or separate. Nor do I see it as inevitable that he will be so ill. Lots of things can happen to change the course of things in life. Even illness and anger.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 752573, member: 18958"] Then don't believe it! Where is it written that you have to believe such a painful thing? This is not a reality. It is a fear. It is a threat. It could happen, yes. Just like all of the worst possible things that we try to never think of. To my way of thinking, that you would not go there, not go to the worst possible thing, is NOT denial. It's faith. Faith in love. Have you thought of the possibility that your son feels compelled to push you away because you won't let go? Not as in "forever and forever." But to give him a break to mend. He's saying to you,[I] let me be. I need you to let me be. [/I] But he accepted safe harbor at your sister's house. Do you see the contradiction? I don't see the either the inevitability or the probability that he will be forever rejecting or separate. Nor do I see it as inevitable that he will be so ill. Lots of things can happen to change the course of things in life. Even illness and anger. [/QUOTE]
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