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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 752584" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Beta, I have been where you are. I was there for 8 years. Only when I completely let go of my daughter, meaning NO contact at all did she grow. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. But it was the only thing that worked with her. My silence spoke volumes and when she matured a little bit she realized what she had done. Backing completely away from her and letting God take the full reins is the only thing that made her change in how she treated me. If I would have never seen her again it was better than the constant abuse and I was ready for that.. NO ONE deserves to be abused and used. I was a doormat for many years. How I got to the cut off is I envisoned myself handing my daughter to God and saying' This is your daughter, she is acting awful, please fill her with the Holy Ghost and heal her. And honestly do it. I cried 3-4 times a day but I stayed strong. I cut my ties sharp and hard. I cut all times. If there was an energency she talked to her dad. I made myself invisible to her. It was the ONLY thing that worked with her because God knows I tried everything else plus. I pray for you because this is so very hard but it needs to be done, what you are doing now is not working. Flip him off and I promise you will feel some sort of well deserved relief. This will go against everything we have learned as Christians. This goes against my nature and soul but I had to do it to restore peace and to get things moving in the right direction. What I had with my daughter was pure BS. Abuse like I was in the company of a devil. DONE with it and I pray you will be too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 752584, member: 22416"] Beta, I have been where you are. I was there for 8 years. Only when I completely let go of my daughter, meaning NO contact at all did she grow. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. But it was the only thing that worked with her. My silence spoke volumes and when she matured a little bit she realized what she had done. Backing completely away from her and letting God take the full reins is the only thing that made her change in how she treated me. If I would have never seen her again it was better than the constant abuse and I was ready for that.. NO ONE deserves to be abused and used. I was a doormat for many years. How I got to the cut off is I envisoned myself handing my daughter to God and saying' This is your daughter, she is acting awful, please fill her with the Holy Ghost and heal her. And honestly do it. I cried 3-4 times a day but I stayed strong. I cut my ties sharp and hard. I cut all times. If there was an energency she talked to her dad. I made myself invisible to her. It was the ONLY thing that worked with her because God knows I tried everything else plus. I pray for you because this is so very hard but it needs to be done, what you are doing now is not working. Flip him off and I promise you will feel some sort of well deserved relief. This will go against everything we have learned as Christians. This goes against my nature and soul but I had to do it to restore peace and to get things moving in the right direction. What I had with my daughter was pure BS. Abuse like I was in the company of a devil. DONE with it and I pray you will be too. [/QUOTE]
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