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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 280962" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so very sorry that this situation is spiraling so quickly. PLEASE do not feel we are frustrated with you. We are frustrated and upset FOR you. And to some degree for difficult child - the boy has NO chance unless husband wakes up and gets some incredibly intense inpatient treatment for him. I am not sure that will be enough, but it would be a start. </p><p></p><p>Your husband's ability to ignore the dangers difficult child presents to the entire family just stuns and amazes me. husband has a huge capacity for hiding his head in the sand.</p><p></p><p>As for the cruise, Ihope you get some kind of break. I would let husband know that you will NOT pay for any damages difficult child does, you will NOT have him near your children unless there is plenty of adult supervision (maybe you can even get husband to hire someone to come on the cruise and be difficult child's shadow??). I think that if you don't stay with your girls then difficult child just might sneak in to hurt them. </p><p></p><p>Why do I think that?</p><p></p><p>Because the cruise is just chock full of people difficult child can blame his actions on, AND full of people who will buy difficult child's "poor little ole me" schtick.</p><p></p><p>Seeing an attorney is a great first step. Maybe you can have him keep copies of pertinent documents - marriage license, birth certificates, wills (if you have them), insurance policy documents, etc... - in his file. </p><p></p><p>Sending HUGE hugs. I know the temptation to wait until next year when you get a promotion is tempting, but it may extend the danger you and your children are in.</p><p></p><p>Give the kids a hug. </p><p></p><p>Susie</p><p></p><p>ps. You have my support - all of it! I know there are reasons and circumstances that can't be shared over the internet. So I will just support you and trust that you are doing the best you can. That is all any of us can do!!</p><p></p><p>pps. While I support you, I am still frustrated with your ostrich-like husband. He really seems to think if he hides this stuff then it will all go away.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 280962, member: 1233"] I am so very sorry that this situation is spiraling so quickly. PLEASE do not feel we are frustrated with you. We are frustrated and upset FOR you. And to some degree for difficult child - the boy has NO chance unless husband wakes up and gets some incredibly intense inpatient treatment for him. I am not sure that will be enough, but it would be a start. Your husband's ability to ignore the dangers difficult child presents to the entire family just stuns and amazes me. husband has a huge capacity for hiding his head in the sand. As for the cruise, Ihope you get some kind of break. I would let husband know that you will NOT pay for any damages difficult child does, you will NOT have him near your children unless there is plenty of adult supervision (maybe you can even get husband to hire someone to come on the cruise and be difficult child's shadow??). I think that if you don't stay with your girls then difficult child just might sneak in to hurt them. Why do I think that? Because the cruise is just chock full of people difficult child can blame his actions on, AND full of people who will buy difficult child's "poor little ole me" schtick. Seeing an attorney is a great first step. Maybe you can have him keep copies of pertinent documents - marriage license, birth certificates, wills (if you have them), insurance policy documents, etc... - in his file. Sending HUGE hugs. I know the temptation to wait until next year when you get a promotion is tempting, but it may extend the danger you and your children are in. Give the kids a hug. Susie ps. You have my support - all of it! I know there are reasons and circumstances that can't be shared over the internet. So I will just support you and trust that you are doing the best you can. That is all any of us can do!! pps. While I support you, I am still frustrated with your ostrich-like husband. He really seems to think if he hides this stuff then it will all go away. [/QUOTE]
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