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How can I leave my dysfunctional marriage?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 640755" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Jules, get professional legal and emotional support. Find out exactly what your options are. Once you do that, and receive the support you need now, you will be able to develop a plan based on your best interests. Begin a list of questions you need to ask an attorney. One being should you cash in your 401K now. Sometimes in the midst of such turmoil we end up making choices that are not in our best interests, because we are afraid. Get all your ducks in order with professional guidance. Once you know what your options are, exactly what can legally occur, you will be in a position of strength, not weakness. Knowledge is power. Get yourself all the knowledge you can. I believe if you are the Petitioner, the one who initially seeks the divorce, you are in a better position then the other. But an attorney will be able to advise you on what is in your best interest.</p><p></p><p>Change is hard, but it sounds as if you are ready to make the changes necessary for your own well being. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 640755, member: 13542"] Jules, get professional legal and emotional support. Find out exactly what your options are. Once you do that, and receive the support you need now, you will be able to develop a plan based on your best interests. Begin a list of questions you need to ask an attorney. One being should you cash in your 401K now. Sometimes in the midst of such turmoil we end up making choices that are not in our best interests, because we are afraid. Get all your ducks in order with professional guidance. Once you know what your options are, exactly what can legally occur, you will be in a position of strength, not weakness. Knowledge is power. Get yourself all the knowledge you can. I believe if you are the Petitioner, the one who initially seeks the divorce, you are in a better position then the other. But an attorney will be able to advise you on what is in your best interest. Change is hard, but it sounds as if you are ready to make the changes necessary for your own well being. Hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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