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How do I tell my 22yr difficult child her 3yr son might be a difficult child? its a long post
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 440285" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>This is probably going to sound the most harsh thing I have ever said. To heck with CPS. Go to Family court locallay and as them to calll ICE. Not so much for the immigrant thing - but for the children. </p><p></p><p>Once HE is out of the picture it's a house of cards. SHE can't work if HE isn't there to watch the kids. IF he's not there? She can NOT handle THREE children on her own. Apparently HE is not doing anything to help the children anyway if they are filthy so I'm not seeing him as a necessary helpmate. With him out of the picture - ICE will call someone to come get the kids. THEY will do an evaluation or involve CPS and the police. Once that is done? The rest will be taken care of by the state foster care system and those children WILL get services because I would imagine a court ordered something would be put in place for your daughter and the idiot father of the first child to follow. </p><p></p><p>I think you need to get an audience with a judge in family court - they're not completely innaproachable. Call the courthouse, talk to a clerk and ask them how you get a meeting with one - and go from there. Tell them you want a judge that is a MOTHER and a Grandmother if possible and ask for 30 minutes or 15 at the least. Have what you want to say well thought out - stick to FACTS not emotions and BEG for guidance. Basically? Read her what you just typed us. It was very to the point, matter of fact and non-emotional.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 440285, member: 4964"] This is probably going to sound the most harsh thing I have ever said. To heck with CPS. Go to Family court locallay and as them to calll ICE. Not so much for the immigrant thing - but for the children. Once HE is out of the picture it's a house of cards. SHE can't work if HE isn't there to watch the kids. IF he's not there? She can NOT handle THREE children on her own. Apparently HE is not doing anything to help the children anyway if they are filthy so I'm not seeing him as a necessary helpmate. With him out of the picture - ICE will call someone to come get the kids. THEY will do an evaluation or involve CPS and the police. Once that is done? The rest will be taken care of by the state foster care system and those children WILL get services because I would imagine a court ordered something would be put in place for your daughter and the idiot father of the first child to follow. I think you need to get an audience with a judge in family court - they're not completely innaproachable. Call the courthouse, talk to a clerk and ask them how you get a meeting with one - and go from there. Tell them you want a judge that is a MOTHER and a Grandmother if possible and ask for 30 minutes or 15 at the least. Have what you want to say well thought out - stick to FACTS not emotions and BEG for guidance. Basically? Read her what you just typed us. It was very to the point, matter of fact and non-emotional. [/QUOTE]
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