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How much did you cry? And do you think they cried over you?
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 667417" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I'm glad, Copa.</p><p></p><p>That is a pure blessing, and I am glad your mom was there for you.</p><p></p><p>I love her a little bit, for that.</p><p></p><p>I think you had posted to us that your mom was willing to participate in family therapy, Copa.</p><p></p><p>I love that about her, too.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry for your loss, Copa. I understand more now about your grief for her, and about how heavy that burden of lost time feels for you. </p><p></p><p>In my heart? I am lighting a candle for you, Copa.</p><p></p><p>Your mother would not want you to suffer Copa ~ she would not want for you to lose the time of your lifetime in suffering for her sake. Honor her yes, but not suffer for her sake. You know she loved you fiercely and protectively. We may both learn, over time, that our sisters relationships to our mothers affected our mothers relationships to us more than we knew.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Protectiveness for you, Copa.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Copa, if you are willing...what was the sister's influence. For her to have turned away from the mother (and from you) as she did, but then, to have tried to come between you at holidays (premiere family occasions) as she did...I don't know how this all fits together Copa, but the sister's influence was malignant.</p><p></p><p>She kept trying to cut you out, Copa.</p><p></p><p>She is still doing that to this day, with her meanness toward both you and M, and with her shunning behaviors.</p><p></p><p>Do you think this could be true, Copa?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 667417, member: 17461"] I'm glad, Copa. That is a pure blessing, and I am glad your mom was there for you. I love her a little bit, for that. I think you had posted to us that your mom was willing to participate in family therapy, Copa. I love that about her, too. I am sorry for your loss, Copa. I understand more now about your grief for her, and about how heavy that burden of lost time feels for you. In my heart? I am lighting a candle for you, Copa. Your mother would not want you to suffer Copa ~ she would not want for you to lose the time of your lifetime in suffering for her sake. Honor her yes, but not suffer for her sake. You know she loved you fiercely and protectively. We may both learn, over time, that our sisters relationships to our mothers affected our mothers relationships to us more than we knew. Protectiveness for you, Copa. Copa, if you are willing...what was the sister's influence. For her to have turned away from the mother (and from you) as she did, but then, to have tried to come between you at holidays (premiere family occasions) as she did...I don't know how this all fits together Copa, but the sister's influence was malignant. She kept trying to cut you out, Copa. She is still doing that to this day, with her meanness toward both you and M, and with her shunning behaviors. Do you think this could be true, Copa? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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