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How to even talk on the phone with my son....
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 657577" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Because you love him.</p><p></p><p></p><p>We all have to do what we feel is best for us and for them. Copa, in my opinion instead of continuing to abuse you, I think your son sounds like a VERY angry young man. Angry at YOU for sure. I have no idea if I'm right, but that is such a hostile thing to bring up. It is twisting the knife. Perhaps he is thinking more of himself and his birthparents? Wish I could read minds. Don't you?</p><p></p><p>All of my kids know about my family and none of them ever threw them up in my face. I know I'd cry buckets if they ever did, but in this they stick up for me. All of them. They saw it and know. Did your son ever see that your father abused you? Did he see the exclusion? Your pain? In my case my kids all knew their (cough) grandma never cared to even contact her daughter or them and they would constantly ask me why I bothered talking to my sister since she called the cops on me and hurt me so often. Hurting me was way worse than the cops thing as the cops never really took it seriously. But they saw...they knew...they knew it hurt so they don't like my FOO either. Did your son see it or just hear about it from you? Could make a difference.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry for you hurt and sadness. I "get" why you are sad, but it is hard for me to explain. Just know...I care. I wish he had not said that. I hope you recover and have a wonderful night with your honey tonight. You deserve it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 657577, member: 1550"] Because you love him. We all have to do what we feel is best for us and for them. Copa, in my opinion instead of continuing to abuse you, I think your son sounds like a VERY angry young man. Angry at YOU for sure. I have no idea if I'm right, but that is such a hostile thing to bring up. It is twisting the knife. Perhaps he is thinking more of himself and his birthparents? Wish I could read minds. Don't you? All of my kids know about my family and none of them ever threw them up in my face. I know I'd cry buckets if they ever did, but in this they stick up for me. All of them. They saw it and know. Did your son ever see that your father abused you? Did he see the exclusion? Your pain? In my case my kids all knew their (cough) grandma never cared to even contact her daughter or them and they would constantly ask me why I bothered talking to my sister since she called the cops on me and hurt me so often. Hurting me was way worse than the cops thing as the cops never really took it seriously. But they saw...they knew...they knew it hurt so they don't like my FOO either. Did your son see it or just hear about it from you? Could make a difference. I'm so sorry for you hurt and sadness. I "get" why you are sad, but it is hard for me to explain. Just know...I care. I wish he had not said that. I hope you recover and have a wonderful night with your honey tonight. You deserve it! [/QUOTE]
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