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How to even talk on the phone with my son....
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 657942" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Honestly, why would you leave your own son forever?</p><p></p><p>Even if Goneboy came back, it would be hard to try to forge a relationship because of the hurt and our religious differences, but I would never "disown" a child. Trust me, it huts too. And for an adopted child...it is a second rejection.</p><p></p><p>He left us, we did not leave him. It's not something I could ever do. It was done to me by my own mother. It hurts a lifetime.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion it is not right to look back at our childhoods and place what happened to us through our parents onto our children. Those issues need to be addressed, hopefully, before having children. If not...your son is not your father or mother. I can see a time out, but not a forever unless he physically hurt you, stole from you, or abused you verbally 100% of the time. Trust me, I have put up with stuff from my kids, but I still love them and would talk to them, even if only sometimes, if I could.</p><p></p><p>Just food for thought. No criticism.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 657942, member: 1550"] Honestly, why would you leave your own son forever? Even if Goneboy came back, it would be hard to try to forge a relationship because of the hurt and our religious differences, but I would never "disown" a child. Trust me, it huts too. And for an adopted child...it is a second rejection. He left us, we did not leave him. It's not something I could ever do. It was done to me by my own mother. It hurts a lifetime. in my opinion it is not right to look back at our childhoods and place what happened to us through our parents onto our children. Those issues need to be addressed, hopefully, before having children. If not...your son is not your father or mother. I can see a time out, but not a forever unless he physically hurt you, stole from you, or abused you verbally 100% of the time. Trust me, I have put up with stuff from my kids, but I still love them and would talk to them, even if only sometimes, if I could. Just food for thought. No criticism. [/QUOTE]
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