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<blockquote data-quote="CAmom" data-source="post: 38935" data-attributes="member: 1835"><p>In our son's case, I was totally an enabler, always wanting things to be "nice," and he learned that all he had to do was make things "un-nice" to get what he wanted. </p><p></p><p>I know, in his case, if he feels he doesn't have to follow rules, it's because getting around them always worked in the past. This has been his main issue in the group home over the past five months because he's tried and knows now that they aren't going to wiggle, bend, or break no matter HOW much he pleads, bargains, or threatens. </p><p></p><p>He didn't push the limits except once over this last weekend, but I can see that I've got to get even stronger over the next few months before he comes home for good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CAmom, post: 38935, member: 1835"] In our son's case, I was totally an enabler, always wanting things to be "nice," and he learned that all he had to do was make things "un-nice" to get what he wanted. I know, in his case, if he feels he doesn't have to follow rules, it's because getting around them always worked in the past. This has been his main issue in the group home over the past five months because he's tried and knows now that they aren't going to wiggle, bend, or break no matter HOW much he pleads, bargains, or threatens. He didn't push the limits except once over this last weekend, but I can see that I've got to get even stronger over the next few months before he comes home for good. [/QUOTE]
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