I have shared many, many posts with husband, but I read them to him - he has never (to my knowledge) been on the board. Which I guess is okay. He is definitely a 'fixer' and gets frustrated. What begins as feeling bad for difficult child for all he goes through sometimes ends in him just being plain miserable.
He knows that I am on here most every day and he knows that I have posted lots of things at lots of times. He's glad for me that I have the site, but I guess he's in line with a lot of husband's here - not for him.
I'm still just glad that I found it all those years ago!!!