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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 9378" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>I called the courthouse today... She said she wasn't going to call and that she would rather go to jail. (ah, that skewed thinking of hers)</p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>It's good to hear that she is making informed decisions.</p><p></p><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>I also had learned... I didn't tell Melissa this, as she was already angry that I called.</p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>Again, she is making her own choices. Perhaps she doesn't want to know because she has it all figured out in her head. Perhaps she already knows and doesn't want you to know that she isn't doing what <em>you</em> would do.</p><p></p><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>She and husband were going on an errand, and I told him to bring it up if she was being calm. They got home and he told me that he had told her. Her answer was that if she went to a counselor, she would only go to sessions until after the court date was over. husband was hopeful that she would see that the counseling was helping her and she would remain in counseling. (that is if she actually follows up on going)</p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>That seems unlikely.</p><p></p><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>Anyway, I have gone above and beyond my duty to investigate the above for Melissa. I know that many of you would not have done this, but I felt a need to.</p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ] </p><p></p><p>In all seriousness and not to be judgmental, what are you hoping to accomplish? Is it likely that it will come to fruition? She's her own person and she probably won't do what you would do with the information. Does knowing that she could fix it and chooses not to help you cope in any way?</p><p></p><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>I informed husband that we are NOT going to pay the $148 fine...</p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>That sounds like the right thing to do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 9378, member: 99"] [ QUOTE ] I called the courthouse today... She said she wasn't going to call and that she would rather go to jail. (ah, that skewed thinking of hers) [/ QUOTE ] It's good to hear that she is making informed decisions. [ QUOTE ] I also had learned... I didn't tell Melissa this, as she was already angry that I called. [/ QUOTE ] Again, she is making her own choices. Perhaps she doesn't want to know because she has it all figured out in her head. Perhaps she already knows and doesn't want you to know that she isn't doing what [i]you[/i] would do. [ QUOTE ] She and husband were going on an errand, and I told him to bring it up if she was being calm. They got home and he told me that he had told her. Her answer was that if she went to a counselor, she would only go to sessions until after the court date was over. husband was hopeful that she would see that the counseling was helping her and she would remain in counseling. (that is if she actually follows up on going) [/ QUOTE ] That seems unlikely. [ QUOTE ] Anyway, I have gone above and beyond my duty to investigate the above for Melissa. I know that many of you would not have done this, but I felt a need to. [/ QUOTE ] In all seriousness and not to be judgmental, what are you hoping to accomplish? Is it likely that it will come to fruition? She's her own person and she probably won't do what you would do with the information. Does knowing that she could fix it and chooses not to help you cope in any way? [ QUOTE ] I informed husband that we are NOT going to pay the $148 fine... [/ QUOTE ] That sounds like the right thing to do. [/QUOTE]
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