I am not the parent of a failure to launch individual, but I was married to one. He was an excellent liar, it was never his fault, and he was able to spin things in so many ways that I never knew what was true and what was not. His mother never forced him to accept any responsibility for anything, and she supported him until his death at 62, possibly from colon cancer but since he ghosted our daughter for about 8 months, she doesn't know exactly what happened.
Believe me when I tell you that you are doing the right thing. If he dies on the street, that was HIS DECISION, he CHOSE to make you feel like crap instead of stepping up and getting clean, finding and keeping a job, and building a life. You need to take care of you. Many hugs.
