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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765310" data-attributes="member: 32799">You and I share similar thoughts, I too do not wish to speak or see my daughter again. If she died somehow would I feel guilty in not taking that last opportunity? Can tell you truthfully the answer is no. Would be tragic no doubt for me but my heart knows we did everything possible in the world for her and then some. There just is nothing else to do.My husband and I have not had electricity at times.&nbsp; It really stinks but, you still manage. Far as his not eating, here we have services that will give out food for a months time, soup kitchens who feed people daily…do you have those there? My hope is that by you holding your ground he will come to know you are serious. No more means no more.I have 3 Ring cameras set up around my house. I know for a fact when my daughter gets out of jail am going to be jumping out of my skin any time they go off. If my situation with her becomes a nightmare, we will move if need be just for our sanity…we are worth having a peaceful life. Told my husband so if we avoid this crisis, she does not show up like I think she will…it’s always going to be there, any minute coming back to us time and again. I will not feel free to open my patio door or windows for fresh air, to go outside by myself, definitely don’t want to run into her at a grocery store I will just leave if I were to see her. This is how determined I am, don’t want to hear the manipulating lies she will tell and make me feel worse than I do now.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765310, member: 32799"] You and I share similar thoughts, I too do not wish to speak or see my daughter again. If she died somehow would I feel guilty in not taking that last opportunity? Can tell you truthfully the answer is no. Would be tragic no doubt for me but my heart knows we did everything possible in the world for her and then some. There just is nothing else to do. My husband and I have not had electricity at times. It really stinks but, you still manage. Far as his not eating, here we have services that will give out food for a months time, soup kitchens who feed people daily…do you have those there? My hope is that by you holding your ground he will come to know you are serious. No more means no more. I have 3 Ring cameras set up around my house. I know for a fact when my daughter gets out of jail am going to be jumping out of my skin any time they go off. If my situation with her becomes a nightmare, we will move if need be just for our sanity…we are worth having a peaceful life. Told my husband so if we avoid this crisis, she does not show up like I think she will…it’s always going to be there, any minute coming back to us time and again. I will not feel free to open my patio door or windows for fresh air, to go outside by myself, definitely don’t want to run into her at a grocery store I will just leave if I were to see her. This is how determined I am, don’t want to hear the manipulating lies she will tell and make me feel worse than I do now. [/QUOTE]

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