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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 719410" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry you have to go through this. Please also go to regular alanon meetings. It is a great help to know you are not alone. </p><p></p><p>We are here and will help with ideas and suggestions whenever you are ready. I suggest you change the locks and keep the keys hidden so he doesn't get one. I would do it sooner rather than later. That way you can keep a door unlocked until you are ready for him to not be able to get in. If you feel unsafe or actually in danger, or if you just suddenly get tired of it all and want him out, you can lock the doors, see that the windows are locked, and simply not allow him to come back in. It gives you the power rather than him. </p><p></p><p>But it is just a suggestion. Around here you will find that we give suggestions but we understand that you may not take them. No one gets upset when you don't take a suggestion. We know that what we suggest may not be right for you or may not be right for you right now. You will get all sorts of suggestions and we expect you to only take the ones that make sense to you. It would be silly to try to take them all! So don't ever worry that we will get upset if you don't do what someone here told you that you should do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 719410, member: 1233"] I am so sorry you have to go through this. Please also go to regular alanon meetings. It is a great help to know you are not alone. We are here and will help with ideas and suggestions whenever you are ready. I suggest you change the locks and keep the keys hidden so he doesn't get one. I would do it sooner rather than later. That way you can keep a door unlocked until you are ready for him to not be able to get in. If you feel unsafe or actually in danger, or if you just suddenly get tired of it all and want him out, you can lock the doors, see that the windows are locked, and simply not allow him to come back in. It gives you the power rather than him. But it is just a suggestion. Around here you will find that we give suggestions but we understand that you may not take them. No one gets upset when you don't take a suggestion. We know that what we suggest may not be right for you or may not be right for you right now. You will get all sorts of suggestions and we expect you to only take the ones that make sense to you. It would be silly to try to take them all! So don't ever worry that we will get upset if you don't do what someone here told you that you should do. [/QUOTE]
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