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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 692655" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>I don't think there is one parent here that threw their child out of their house and lived happily ever after. That decision came after much emotional and physical stress. Many give advice here about the home being your sanctuary, to make sure you keep yourself healthy and mentally stable so that you can maintain your life, your career, take care of other family members in the home.</p><p></p><p>What works for some folks doesn't work for others. Every situation is a different set of circumstances. Some Difficult Child's are on drugs, some are violent, some are mentally, physically or emotionally unwell, some use their kids as pawns, some have stolen from their family or others, some just take a little longer to "launch".</p><p></p><p>Upallnight- I know it was a hard decision to make and please don't feel bad about having to remove your child from your home. YOU did what you had to do to protect your own sanity and health. It's called self-survival. Many of us have been driven almost to the grave due to the stress of our Difficult Child's and their decisions, which directly impacts our decisions and our well-being. Just because some people would never make "x" decision doesn't mean it isn't the right decision for someone else.</p><p></p><p>To fix any problem you have to know the "why" before you can figure out the "How" .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 692655, member: 19951"] I don't think there is one parent here that threw their child out of their house and lived happily ever after. That decision came after much emotional and physical stress. Many give advice here about the home being your sanctuary, to make sure you keep yourself healthy and mentally stable so that you can maintain your life, your career, take care of other family members in the home. What works for some folks doesn't work for others. Every situation is a different set of circumstances. Some Difficult Child's are on drugs, some are violent, some are mentally, physically or emotionally unwell, some use their kids as pawns, some have stolen from their family or others, some just take a little longer to "launch". Upallnight- I know it was a hard decision to make and please don't feel bad about having to remove your child from your home. YOU did what you had to do to protect your own sanity and health. It's called self-survival. Many of us have been driven almost to the grave due to the stress of our Difficult Child's and their decisions, which directly impacts our decisions and our well-being. Just because some people would never make "x" decision doesn't mean it isn't the right decision for someone else. To fix any problem you have to know the "why" before you can figure out the "How" . [/QUOTE]
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