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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 693234" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa dear sweet wonan, you know your son well. you are doing what you can live with. And you should. Thats what I meant. We must face ourselves in the mirror each day.</p><p></p><p>SistersKeeper, to me your post was one of the best on pot I have seen here. Perfect. YES, the fact is many highy educated, productuve professionals do smoke pot and function at a high level. This is my conflict. And my validation. Pot doesnt harm everyone.</p><p></p><p>Some people can not drink. Some can not use pot. Some can. We have to asess what WE can live with. To me, it's all about us, especially if our grown kids are over 22. The younger they are, the more we still may be able to influence their decisions. MAY.</p><p></p><p>After that they do what they want and we choose the response WE can live with. I dont think we should suffer over a really adult child.</p><p></p><p>As I've posted recently, my oldest is 38 and still wants a mommy. To the extent that I feel comfortable being one, I am. But I dont feel guilty making a man his age function without me too, if I've had enough. He wont change and is doing nothing to help himself. Every possible way for him to improve himself is met with 'but, I cant.'</p><p></p><p>We do what we can do and live with our bottpm line. These are personal decisions, none right or wrong in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>As for pot, I cant use it either. </p><p></p><p>Antidepressants help anxiety and dont put you in a fog (unless you get a bad reaction) Pot for anxiety in my opinion is about the high and blurring the edges of reality and that doesnt help anyone learn to cope. Plus,as many of us know, it does become addictive in certain people. </p><p></p><p> JMO</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 693234, member: 1550"] Copa dear sweet wonan, you know your son well. you are doing what you can live with. And you should. Thats what I meant. We must face ourselves in the mirror each day. SistersKeeper, to me your post was one of the best on pot I have seen here. Perfect. YES, the fact is many highy educated, productuve professionals do smoke pot and function at a high level. This is my conflict. And my validation. Pot doesnt harm everyone. Some people can not drink. Some can not use pot. Some can. We have to asess what WE can live with. To me, it's all about us, especially if our grown kids are over 22. The younger they are, the more we still may be able to influence their decisions. MAY. After that they do what they want and we choose the response WE can live with. I dont think we should suffer over a really adult child. As I've posted recently, my oldest is 38 and still wants a mommy. To the extent that I feel comfortable being one, I am. But I dont feel guilty making a man his age function without me too, if I've had enough. He wont change and is doing nothing to help himself. Every possible way for him to improve himself is met with 'but, I cant.' We do what we can do and live with our bottpm line. These are personal decisions, none right or wrong in my opinion. As for pot, I cant use it either. Antidepressants help anxiety and dont put you in a fog (unless you get a bad reaction) Pot for anxiety in my opinion is about the high and blurring the edges of reality and that doesnt help anyone learn to cope. Plus,as many of us know, it does become addictive in certain people. JMO [/QUOTE]
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