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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 588781" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>They (the military) swears there is all this help for families effected by deployment the only offer of therapy we have been given is play therapy recently and the adhd medication a year ago which I am devoutly against both, I want her to go real therapy with a professional who is not trying to turn me into the enemy. If she needs medications then fine but they need to be prescribed by someone who is not telling me I am over reacting. I have not looked outside of the military installation yet, we are seeing a new primary care physician next week I am going to see what he says and then start calling the city. Cost is definitely a factor. We are in colorado the cost of living here is ridiculous, my husband is facing medical retirement because of the issues he is going through which have resulted from neglect of medical care. I am not against going back to therapy for myself, I spent a year in therapy when I returned from deployment dealing with the divorce and all the fall out. I think I need medication too just so I have some distance from all of the issues, maintain some perspective. I feel like I have a million pound elephant sitting on my chest, I am driving my mother crazy because I have no friends here and too much on my plate and call daily some times multiple times a day just to hear someone tell me that I'm going to get through this. The stuff with tk is very minor compared to the problems my husband is facing but I've had it I want everyone in therapy getting their needs met. It's like trickle down economics except its trickle down issues. My husband is effecting all of us and my daughter is effecting all of us. I do not want my 3 year old and infant to develop any problems. There is only one of me and god knows I'm not perfect. I had to accept help from ex who is starting to try to play the blame game and wanting to be angry at my husband and trying to say my kids from that marriage should stay with him. Because apparently from his view point tk trying to kill boyo is just "kids being kids" he's a good dad but sometimes he's clueless. He makes less money than us by a large margin, just moved up here to be closer to the kids he has our two kids plus one just found out he's going to have another. I am not in a position to help him out financially if he took the kids as we have to start shoveling debt quick in order to make the transition out of the army. It's all starting to resemble the springer show and I am embarrassed, hurt that my marriage (the partnership part) is on hold till we either get surgery or medications that work for him, which is coming but not fast enough. Tk needs help and I need respite and not judgement from someone who hasn't been here and has no idea what's going on with the kids or my life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 588781, member: 16184"] They (the military) swears there is all this help for families effected by deployment the only offer of therapy we have been given is play therapy recently and the adhd medication a year ago which I am devoutly against both, I want her to go real therapy with a professional who is not trying to turn me into the enemy. If she needs medications then fine but they need to be prescribed by someone who is not telling me I am over reacting. I have not looked outside of the military installation yet, we are seeing a new primary care physician next week I am going to see what he says and then start calling the city. Cost is definitely a factor. We are in colorado the cost of living here is ridiculous, my husband is facing medical retirement because of the issues he is going through which have resulted from neglect of medical care. I am not against going back to therapy for myself, I spent a year in therapy when I returned from deployment dealing with the divorce and all the fall out. I think I need medication too just so I have some distance from all of the issues, maintain some perspective. I feel like I have a million pound elephant sitting on my chest, I am driving my mother crazy because I have no friends here and too much on my plate and call daily some times multiple times a day just to hear someone tell me that I'm going to get through this. The stuff with tk is very minor compared to the problems my husband is facing but I've had it I want everyone in therapy getting their needs met. It's like trickle down economics except its trickle down issues. My husband is effecting all of us and my daughter is effecting all of us. I do not want my 3 year old and infant to develop any problems. There is only one of me and god knows I'm not perfect. I had to accept help from ex who is starting to try to play the blame game and wanting to be angry at my husband and trying to say my kids from that marriage should stay with him. Because apparently from his view point tk trying to kill boyo is just "kids being kids" he's a good dad but sometimes he's clueless. He makes less money than us by a large margin, just moved up here to be closer to the kids he has our two kids plus one just found out he's going to have another. I am not in a position to help him out financially if he took the kids as we have to start shoveling debt quick in order to make the transition out of the army. It's all starting to resemble the springer show and I am embarrassed, hurt that my marriage (the partnership part) is on hold till we either get surgery or medications that work for him, which is coming but not fast enough. Tk needs help and I need respite and not judgement from someone who hasn't been here and has no idea what's going on with the kids or my life. [/QUOTE]
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