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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 588797" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Buddy, again, gives the most excellent advices. It really sounds that there may well be something neurological going on. It doesn't even need to be that major that, with 'right' environmental factors, it can wreck huge havoc. Do also remember that neurological and psychological issues don't cut each other off. It is well possible to have both. </p><p></p><p>It sounds that your daughter has had rather stressful times in her life and your current situation is also very stressful for your whole family. So that and family dynamics are likely to play also some part. At times it is, for us parents at least, easier to just concentrate to neurological stuff, and many professionals like to concentrate psychological/family dynamics part, because that is easier for them, but to help our kids it is often important to tackle both, because neurological and psychological issues are certainly not separate in child's life. They do intervene to each others and the mess we see from outside is often the complex web of both. And you just has to start to sort it out from different angles.</p><p></p><p>My kid is one of those, who originally didn't have that much wrong in him. But those small neurological differences, family dynamics, social skill deficits, peer relationships and likely some other things started to snowball into quite a mess. We tried everything we could think of, had some successful professional interventions, some not so successful and some things did slow down the pace snowball was rolling, some even unrolled it a bit, some made it worse but well, we ended up with rather messed up and difficult young adult who luckily also has lots of strengths and is now trying to deal with that snowball and I can just hope he will be successful with that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 588797, member: 14557"] Buddy, again, gives the most excellent advices. It really sounds that there may well be something neurological going on. It doesn't even need to be that major that, with 'right' environmental factors, it can wreck huge havoc. Do also remember that neurological and psychological issues don't cut each other off. It is well possible to have both. It sounds that your daughter has had rather stressful times in her life and your current situation is also very stressful for your whole family. So that and family dynamics are likely to play also some part. At times it is, for us parents at least, easier to just concentrate to neurological stuff, and many professionals like to concentrate psychological/family dynamics part, because that is easier for them, but to help our kids it is often important to tackle both, because neurological and psychological issues are certainly not separate in child's life. They do intervene to each others and the mess we see from outside is often the complex web of both. And you just has to start to sort it out from different angles. My kid is one of those, who originally didn't have that much wrong in him. But those small neurological differences, family dynamics, social skill deficits, peer relationships and likely some other things started to snowball into quite a mess. We tried everything we could think of, had some successful professional interventions, some not so successful and some things did slow down the pace snowball was rolling, some even unrolled it a bit, some made it worse but well, we ended up with rather messed up and difficult young adult who luckily also has lots of strengths and is now trying to deal with that snowball and I can just hope he will be successful with that. [/QUOTE]
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