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I didn't think 35 could shock me anymore, but what horrible parenting!!
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 585456" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>I agree with you that this is horrible parenting.</p><p></p><p>MWM, you gave me a swift kick in the rear when I needed it. I wish I could return the favor only to kick your son!!!</p><p></p><p>This is called Parental Alienation, and not only does it damage the child's relationship with the parent doing it AND the parent not doing it (trust me on this), it damages the child. FOR LIFE. Onyxx is still convinced that she is unlovable - because SHE decided that bio should leave husband because husband didn't love HER. (Really?!) Then later, when she refused to name husband as her molester, bio cut her off - pretty much saying she was only worthy if she accused husband. Jett still does not trust Onyxx, or husband... He tells <em><strong>me</strong> </em>far more than husband. because bio didn't know what to say about me that would prove I was horrible.</p><p></p><p>We have reams of counseling documentation where the kids told the counselors wild stories that bore absolutely no resemblance to reality. The kids' stories matched, and matched bio's story. But... husband and I, teachers, coaches... We all matched, because that WAS reality.</p><p></p><p>She had the kids <em>completely convinced</em> that husband beat her. I've been with him a long, long time and seen him lose his temper and throw a tantrum like a child. Not ONCE - never - has he come even close to hurting a living being. He's slammed doors... Kicked one, once... Thrown stuff into the back yard... The closest he ever came to hitting anyone in anger? Onyxx got taken down when she physically attacked me. He's restrained her when she was attacking him. Yeah... Sure. When I asked Jett how he would feel about me and Daddy getting married (he was 6), he started screaming and crying, in Kroger, that we couldn't get married because we would fight and hurt each other if we did.</p><p></p><p>If your son is treating a <em>child</em> as a confidante... UGH. They're not friends. He's a PARENT.</p><p></p><p>...I'm rather rabid on this subject... Sorry. But you're right. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /> for you, and for J.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 585456, member: 6705"] I agree with you that this is horrible parenting. MWM, you gave me a swift kick in the rear when I needed it. I wish I could return the favor only to kick your son!!! This is called Parental Alienation, and not only does it damage the child's relationship with the parent doing it AND the parent not doing it (trust me on this), it damages the child. FOR LIFE. Onyxx is still convinced that she is unlovable - because SHE decided that bio should leave husband because husband didn't love HER. (Really?!) Then later, when she refused to name husband as her molester, bio cut her off - pretty much saying she was only worthy if she accused husband. Jett still does not trust Onyxx, or husband... He tells [I][B]me[/B] [/I]far more than husband. because bio didn't know what to say about me that would prove I was horrible. We have reams of counseling documentation where the kids told the counselors wild stories that bore absolutely no resemblance to reality. The kids' stories matched, and matched bio's story. But... husband and I, teachers, coaches... We all matched, because that WAS reality. She had the kids [I]completely convinced[/I] that husband beat her. I've been with him a long, long time and seen him lose his temper and throw a tantrum like a child. Not ONCE - never - has he come even close to hurting a living being. He's slammed doors... Kicked one, once... Thrown stuff into the back yard... The closest he ever came to hitting anyone in anger? Onyxx got taken down when she physically attacked me. He's restrained her when she was attacking him. Yeah... Sure. When I asked Jett how he would feel about me and Daddy getting married (he was 6), he started screaming and crying, in Kroger, that we couldn't get married because we would fight and hurt each other if we did. If your son is treating a [I]child[/I] as a confidante... UGH. They're not friends. He's a PARENT. ...I'm rather rabid on this subject... Sorry. But you're right. :hugs: for you, and for J. [/QUOTE]
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