Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
I finally did it, but Bart is fuming and blocked me.
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 740880" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you and welcome overcome mom.</p><p></p><p>I cant believe I wrote all this about somebody I love so much. All I want for him is to learn better coping skills and doing all he can to take care of his health. I worry myself sick. I have been worried since this woman divorced him. I know he was alone, not good at making friends, not really a part of our family (just me and kind of his father). I cant impress on him how important a support system is. A group maybe of divorced men. People to lean on who live near him. And when one is under stress taking extra care of both one's mental and physical heslth is so very important. But he doesnt think it will help until the stressful events are over. So he won't even try. I so much want him to get so angry at the situation that he says "I wont allow this to ruin my life! I will NEVER lose my son to her...she cant change that. I do need to stay healthy for him."</p><p></p><p>Will this ever happen?</p><p></p><p>I hope so.</p><p></p><p>I hope he sits back and decided that my simple rules are reasonable and that we can talk to one another without yelling. I talk to people without anyone yelling at me all the time. He is so very smart. He must know on some level that this is possible. And that the way he talks to me is wrong. It would kill him if his son someday talked to him that way but he is setting a terrible example.</p><p></p><p>I am sad about this but I wont let it break me. I want peace and respect for the rest if my life too. I am at an age where constant stress is bad for me and there are too many who need and want me here and healthy for me to put up with the relationship as it now stands. It was starting to affect me in a negative way. I had to change the rules. Its up to him now. Truly. I am here for himbut he has to stop the way he tslks to me. Period.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 740880, member: 1550"] Thank you and welcome overcome mom. I cant believe I wrote all this about somebody I love so much. All I want for him is to learn better coping skills and doing all he can to take care of his health. I worry myself sick. I have been worried since this woman divorced him. I know he was alone, not good at making friends, not really a part of our family (just me and kind of his father). I cant impress on him how important a support system is. A group maybe of divorced men. People to lean on who live near him. And when one is under stress taking extra care of both one's mental and physical heslth is so very important. But he doesnt think it will help until the stressful events are over. So he won't even try. I so much want him to get so angry at the situation that he says "I wont allow this to ruin my life! I will NEVER lose my son to her...she cant change that. I do need to stay healthy for him." Will this ever happen? I hope so. I hope he sits back and decided that my simple rules are reasonable and that we can talk to one another without yelling. I talk to people without anyone yelling at me all the time. He is so very smart. He must know on some level that this is possible. And that the way he talks to me is wrong. It would kill him if his son someday talked to him that way but he is setting a terrible example. I am sad about this but I wont let it break me. I want peace and respect for the rest if my life too. I am at an age where constant stress is bad for me and there are too many who need and want me here and healthy for me to put up with the relationship as it now stands. It was starting to affect me in a negative way. I had to change the rules. Its up to him now. Truly. I am here for himbut he has to stop the way he tslks to me. Period. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
I finally did it, but Bart is fuming and blocked me.
Top