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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 703258" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>GM, it is actually sons ex that tries to cut him out. Always. She moved far away to get him into her school district an hour away. Son fought for son to stay in current school and it's a pretty easy win for him, but she is actually worse than he is and not even nice to my grandson. For example she forced my gentle, shy grandson into activities such as hunting and makes him stay outside alone in the back yard by himself for hours on end because "it's not my fault if you have no friends. Go make some or stand outside alone." She is angry that all his friends are at the school he goes to and wants to prove in court that he has many friends in her area too. But he doesn't and is too timid to rush up to unfamiliar kids. Since he doesn't go to school with him, the other kids ignore him or ask him to stop looking at them.</p><p></p><p>As for the hunting, he cried and refused to touch a weapon. He told my don he can't hurt an animal and doesn't want to hunt. He told me too. But my son can't tell her what to do with him on her time and it's not considered abuse or against the law. My grandson is crazy about my son. My son is truly and to him. He is the only person that don treats with pure love.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I think son is doing the right thing by fighting for my grandson to stay on the school he has always gone to. Thst us all he is asking for, not additional custody. Missouri is s 50\50 State and he has never tried to get more than that. She has. Not him.</p><p></p><p>COM, you are so right. 40 years because he has always been this way. Fortunately he can't leave Missouri because he'd never leave his son so hei is only annoying (very) by phone and I don't always answer it. I also work a lot and can't have my phone on me and often I just tell him I was at work if I didn't want to talk.I get off these days as soon as the abuse starts too.</p><p></p><p>I don't expect him to change. He refuses to get help. Has s million excuses. I'm not a psychiatrist. I can't do anything.</p><p></p><p>I so look forward to RVing. I am normally so busy that none of my kids can get me often, even the ones I love to hear from. RVing will make it even easier to seriously pull out of his life ad I can say I was at a dead spot.</p><p></p><p>I hate lying by the way. But this middle age man will not have me around forever. He needs to learn other ways to blow off steam other than telling me. I also can't wait to live the rest of my life and refuse to let him ruin my travels.</p><p></p><p>COM, you are so wise and so kind. GM, thst you do much for caring. Love to both.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 703258, member: 1550"] GM, it is actually sons ex that tries to cut him out. Always. She moved far away to get him into her school district an hour away. Son fought for son to stay in current school and it's a pretty easy win for him, but she is actually worse than he is and not even nice to my grandson. For example she forced my gentle, shy grandson into activities such as hunting and makes him stay outside alone in the back yard by himself for hours on end because "it's not my fault if you have no friends. Go make some or stand outside alone." She is angry that all his friends are at the school he goes to and wants to prove in court that he has many friends in her area too. But he doesn't and is too timid to rush up to unfamiliar kids. Since he doesn't go to school with him, the other kids ignore him or ask him to stop looking at them. As for the hunting, he cried and refused to touch a weapon. He told my don he can't hurt an animal and doesn't want to hunt. He told me too. But my son can't tell her what to do with him on her time and it's not considered abuse or against the law. My grandson is crazy about my son. My son is truly and to him. He is the only person that don treats with pure love. I think son is doing the right thing by fighting for my grandson to stay on the school he has always gone to. Thst us all he is asking for, not additional custody. Missouri is s 50\50 State and he has never tried to get more than that. She has. Not him. COM, you are so right. 40 years because he has always been this way. Fortunately he can't leave Missouri because he'd never leave his son so hei is only annoying (very) by phone and I don't always answer it. I also work a lot and can't have my phone on me and often I just tell him I was at work if I didn't want to talk.I get off these days as soon as the abuse starts too. I don't expect him to change. He refuses to get help. Has s million excuses. I'm not a psychiatrist. I can't do anything. I so look forward to RVing. I am normally so busy that none of my kids can get me often, even the ones I love to hear from. RVing will make it even easier to seriously pull out of his life ad I can say I was at a dead spot. I hate lying by the way. But this middle age man will not have me around forever. He needs to learn other ways to blow off steam other than telling me. I also can't wait to live the rest of my life and refuse to let him ruin my travels. COM, you are so wise and so kind. GM, thst you do much for caring. Love to both. [/QUOTE]
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