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I just threw out my 21 year old addict son
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<blockquote data-quote="scott's mom" data-source="post: 707582" data-attributes="member: 21409"><p>I have a 27 year old son who, I found out 2 years ago, is a heroin addict. He stole some property from his girlfriends mother and a bunch of stuff from me and his dad to support his habit. He was arrested and placed on 4 years probation. He was doing great, got a new job and was behaving himself but that was probably because for the first 90 days he was on electronic monitoring. Once the bracelet came off, back in December, everything started going back to the way it was when he got arrested. I was catching him in so many lies. He has a no contact order with his girlfriend and her parents but continues to see her. I'm finding stuff missing again, most of which belong to my mentally handicapped grandson who I have had custody of since he was an infant, he is 13 years old now. He loves video games and I found brand new games missing that he got for his birthday, I called around to local video stores to see if anyone has sold them games and sure enough they had about 11 games sold to them by my son. So in January I kicked him out and called his PO to let her know that I kicked him out and that he was using again and everything else I knew. I figured he needed to be locked up again to get him off the street and away from the drugs and the girl who has always been a very toxic element in his life. But his PO did nothing. She told him I called her and he said we had a fight and I was making everything up. She must believe him because he is still out. Only now he is committing more crimes and using more drugs. He has stolen money from a single mother and her kids (all the money they had) and he stole checks out of someones purse at work. I got all this information from the single mom and his boss at work. He was NEVER like this before he started using. He was the one person everyone could count on. I know he is sick and this disease has taken over my son, but my point is if his PO had listened to me to begin with none of this new stuff would be happening. He told me when he saw her for the first time she told him that if he was going to pee dirty to tell her and she would not test him that week. This county does nothing to help these people. I want my son back. How can I report his PO for not doing her job? (I don't want to report her to a county office, I would rather go federal) Do I write the judge? He is going to face more charges now for the checks which didn't have to even happen if she would have revoked his probation to begin with. I agree he needs to go to prison and do his 4 years. Thank you for taking the time to read this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scott's mom, post: 707582, member: 21409"] I have a 27 year old son who, I found out 2 years ago, is a heroin addict. He stole some property from his girlfriends mother and a bunch of stuff from me and his dad to support his habit. He was arrested and placed on 4 years probation. He was doing great, got a new job and was behaving himself but that was probably because for the first 90 days he was on electronic monitoring. Once the bracelet came off, back in December, everything started going back to the way it was when he got arrested. I was catching him in so many lies. He has a no contact order with his girlfriend and her parents but continues to see her. I'm finding stuff missing again, most of which belong to my mentally handicapped grandson who I have had custody of since he was an infant, he is 13 years old now. He loves video games and I found brand new games missing that he got for his birthday, I called around to local video stores to see if anyone has sold them games and sure enough they had about 11 games sold to them by my son. So in January I kicked him out and called his PO to let her know that I kicked him out and that he was using again and everything else I knew. I figured he needed to be locked up again to get him off the street and away from the drugs and the girl who has always been a very toxic element in his life. But his PO did nothing. She told him I called her and he said we had a fight and I was making everything up. She must believe him because he is still out. Only now he is committing more crimes and using more drugs. He has stolen money from a single mother and her kids (all the money they had) and he stole checks out of someones purse at work. I got all this information from the single mom and his boss at work. He was NEVER like this before he started using. He was the one person everyone could count on. I know he is sick and this disease has taken over my son, but my point is if his PO had listened to me to begin with none of this new stuff would be happening. He told me when he saw her for the first time she told him that if he was going to pee dirty to tell her and she would not test him that week. This county does nothing to help these people. I want my son back. How can I report his PO for not doing her job? (I don't want to report her to a county office, I would rather go federal) Do I write the judge? He is going to face more charges now for the checks which didn't have to even happen if she would have revoked his probation to begin with. I agree he needs to go to prison and do his 4 years. Thank you for taking the time to read this. [/QUOTE]
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