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I Love a Narcissist. Now What?
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<blockquote data-quote="Quicksand" data-source="post: 666882" data-attributes="member: 19405"><p>Somewhere, I think your mother assumed that you would be jealous because she is jealous. Not of anything specifically, just generally all around jealous. From what you wrote, it sounds like your mother was a lot like mine. My mother was/is a narccist or borderline. </p><p>She triangulated my 2 brothers, sister and I. I was about to write the details of each one of us, but that would take too long! </p><p>In a nutshell, we had my oldest brother (63)the golden child, who is an absolute selfish, narccist himself and a doctor. My next brother (61)who is a retired UAW worker and her scapegoat,who went 15 years no contact with any of us, my sister who is (56) and is 4x divorced and has continued to be helpless and relies on my mother for most things and then there's me, the baby and another scapegoat. My mechanic brother and I are now no contact since my dads death last November. (That's another (horrible) story!)</p><p>Perfection was her sole goal. If you didn't meet her standards, you were garbage in her eyes. My mother never said- I love you. Not once.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Quicksand, post: 666882, member: 19405"] Somewhere, I think your mother assumed that you would be jealous because she is jealous. Not of anything specifically, just generally all around jealous. From what you wrote, it sounds like your mother was a lot like mine. My mother was/is a narccist or borderline. She triangulated my 2 brothers, sister and I. I was about to write the details of each one of us, but that would take too long! In a nutshell, we had my oldest brother (63)the golden child, who is an absolute selfish, narccist himself and a doctor. My next brother (61)who is a retired UAW worker and her scapegoat,who went 15 years no contact with any of us, my sister who is (56) and is 4x divorced and has continued to be helpless and relies on my mother for most things and then there's me, the baby and another scapegoat. My mechanic brother and I are now no contact since my dads death last November. (That's another (horrible) story!) Perfection was her sole goal. If you didn't meet her standards, you were garbage in her eyes. My mother never said- I love you. Not once. [/QUOTE]
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