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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 677527" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I will call M my "significant husband" not my husband but not my other, either. He came home.</p><p></p><p>Let me clarify: He does not think it is my fault. What he does say is this: The moment son enters your house he accepts your rules. There is nothing for you to yell about. The minute he decides to not accept your rules he leaves.</p><p></p><p>What is there to yell about? Tell him he leaves. He should not have come in the first place, if you said no.</p><p></p><p>The minute you start arguing with him, you lose. He is stronger than you. He has more endurance. He has more words. Fewer boundaries. You wear out and get desperate, hysterical. You do not have to go there. You should not.</p><p></p><p>Just remember this, he says: your house, your rules. He chooses. The second he decides to transgress, he leaves.</p><p></p><p>So if I think about this, I realize I got myself into this. I still want my son. I want to help him. I want to have family. I did this to myself. How horrible are our situations.</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 677527, member: 18958"] I will call M my "significant husband" not my husband but not my other, either. He came home. Let me clarify: He does not think it is my fault. What he does say is this: The moment son enters your house he accepts your rules. There is nothing for you to yell about. The minute he decides to not accept your rules he leaves. What is there to yell about? Tell him he leaves. He should not have come in the first place, if you said no. The minute you start arguing with him, you lose. He is stronger than you. He has more endurance. He has more words. Fewer boundaries. You wear out and get desperate, hysterical. You do not have to go there. You should not. Just remember this, he says: your house, your rules. He chooses. The second he decides to transgress, he leaves. So if I think about this, I realize I got myself into this. I still want my son. I want to help him. I want to have family. I did this to myself. How horrible are our situations. Thank you. COPA [/QUOTE]
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