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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 677585" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Thank you, Feeling. What a beautiful post and beautifully written.</p><p></p><p>He was better this time. There were moments that he was his old self.</p><p></p><p>But he wants to dominate his space. He does not recognize that to do so, he needs to pay for it, with a written contract. Short of that, other people get to dominate. Even mothers. Maybe, especially mothers.</p><p></p><p>After reading your post and those of others, I realize that what I did was a sign of greater health and greater strength than before, rather than weakness. Of course, it would have been better to not let him in (could you have) or to remain calm, as M advises. But imperfect, I still am. </p><p></p><p>And now that I think about it, my son showed gains, too. In the past he would have called the cops on me. He did leave, without protest. (Although he found M somehow who took him to the vacant house where he has been working. So I can rest easily because he has shelter.)</p><p></p><p>Thank you so much.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 677585, member: 18958"] Thank you, Feeling. What a beautiful post and beautifully written. He was better this time. There were moments that he was his old self. But he wants to dominate his space. He does not recognize that to do so, he needs to pay for it, with a written contract. Short of that, other people get to dominate. Even mothers. Maybe, especially mothers. After reading your post and those of others, I realize that what I did was a sign of greater health and greater strength than before, rather than weakness. Of course, it would have been better to not let him in (could you have) or to remain calm, as M advises. But imperfect, I still am. And now that I think about it, my son showed gains, too. In the past he would have called the cops on me. He did leave, without protest. (Although he found M somehow who took him to the vacant house where he has been working. So I can rest easily because he has shelter.) Thank you so much. COPA [/QUOTE]
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