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I miss my sister...for the first time in say 55 years.
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 654642" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Ha!!!!</p><p></p><p>This is me, too.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, I am not so much complicated as mystified. I am learning complicated.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes.</p><p></p><p>True.</p><p></p><p>And who is working your kindness now to break you. I don't know why. </p><p></p><p>Well, you are here with us, now.</p><p></p><p>You will enlarge and enfold and encompass and move on stronger, not break.</p><p></p><p>If you do break for a little while you are coming through?</p><p></p><p>We are right here, and there are so many of us that one of us will have come through the same thing.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>My D H seems to have make a spiritual practice of saying "no". I'm serious. It is a harder thing to say no. People are not going to be pleased or happy. I can say no when I get it that I am being asked something unreasonable, or accused of something untrue? </p><p></p><p>But I never even see the stuff I should catch when it is small enough that a no would work.</p><p></p><p>What it is is wishing we could all get along.</p><p></p><p>That is contrary to human nature.</p><p></p><p>I am learning to say no.</p><p></p><p>Next, I will learn to relish saying no. "No" is the one word that makes those around us stronger.</p><p></p><p>That is how I am trying to see it.</p><p></p><p>It is hard to learn this kind of honest.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>I like it, though.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 654642, member: 17461"] Ha!!!! This is me, too. Unfortunately, I am not so much complicated as mystified. I am learning complicated. Yes. True. And who is working your kindness now to break you. I don't know why. Well, you are here with us, now. You will enlarge and enfold and encompass and move on stronger, not break. If you do break for a little while you are coming through? We are right here, and there are so many of us that one of us will have come through the same thing. :O) My D H seems to have make a spiritual practice of saying "no". I'm serious. It is a harder thing to say no. People are not going to be pleased or happy. I can say no when I get it that I am being asked something unreasonable, or accused of something untrue? But I never even see the stuff I should catch when it is small enough that a no would work. What it is is wishing we could all get along. That is contrary to human nature. I am learning to say no. Next, I will learn to relish saying no. "No" is the one word that makes those around us stronger. That is how I am trying to see it. It is hard to learn this kind of honest. Cedar I like it, though. [/QUOTE]
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