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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 602176" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Like Toughlovin has said before ...better to be angry. </p><p></p><p>I am trying to see that I am NOT responsible for the outcome. That really all we are doing is slowing down the process of real recovery from drugs and alcohol...impairing and getting in the way of "God's plan". </p><p></p><p>I have talked to my girlfriends and will spend the evening with one next Friday. I will have husband go through the process of seeing our son to the door as he would have done this long long ago if it weren't for my feelings getting in the way. </p><p></p><p>I must keep my "mommy heart" at bay. Why were we given this soft place in our selves? It does me no good in times like this. I have to go against the grain of my soul. </p><p></p><p>I have to keep my eye on young difficult child's 3 precious children. J who is 6 and he gives me toy rings to wear as presents, J who is 3 and hugs with her whole heart, and J who is 1 and has this whole "baby of the family" thing down, smile. Beautiful children. Yes, these are the little souls that I need to remember through all of this...Not the baby I carried and have carried through all these years. </p><p></p><p>I am not responsible for the outcome. I am not responsible for the outcome. </p><p>I need to believe those words. </p><p>Thank you all for supporting me...and what is "best" for my Young difficult child. </p><p>LMS </p><p></p><p>ps...DDD and others, your suggestions about the locks are good. The truck is in young difficult child's name and he carries his own insurance, also has his own phone plan.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 602176, member: 3305"] Like Toughlovin has said before ...better to be angry. I am trying to see that I am NOT responsible for the outcome. That really all we are doing is slowing down the process of real recovery from drugs and alcohol...impairing and getting in the way of "God's plan". I have talked to my girlfriends and will spend the evening with one next Friday. I will have husband go through the process of seeing our son to the door as he would have done this long long ago if it weren't for my feelings getting in the way. I must keep my "mommy heart" at bay. Why were we given this soft place in our selves? It does me no good in times like this. I have to go against the grain of my soul. I have to keep my eye on young difficult child's 3 precious children. J who is 6 and he gives me toy rings to wear as presents, J who is 3 and hugs with her whole heart, and J who is 1 and has this whole "baby of the family" thing down, smile. Beautiful children. Yes, these are the little souls that I need to remember through all of this...Not the baby I carried and have carried through all these years. I am not responsible for the outcome. I am not responsible for the outcome. I need to believe those words. Thank you all for supporting me...and what is "best" for my Young difficult child. LMS ps...DDD and others, your suggestions about the locks are good. The truck is in young difficult child's name and he carries his own insurance, also has his own phone plan. [/QUOTE]
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