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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 723779" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>i am sorry you feel a lack of support. </p><p></p><p>i can only speak for myself. the last thing i would want is that anything happen to your son. that he be judged or punished. i want him safe and protected and treated.you are doing all of these things.</p><p></p><p>but you are talking with professionals who have a mandate to evaluate potential risk to the other kids.</p><p></p><p> i want you to know that. </p><p></p><p>that your son has an advocate is not a bad thing. my own son had a legal advocate. whose only responsibility was his welfare. that did not mean that either my son or i had done anything wrong. your situation is more complicated due to the other kids in the home. this is not to judge your son. it is to protect everybody.</p><p></p><p>nor do i want you to suffer. </p><p></p><p>i reread your post. you are doing everything right. therapy twice a week. a comprehensive exam. </p><p></p><p>i know you are afraid. i was quite vulnerable when i came here. that was about 2.5 years ago. i think we each of us has gone through so much and heard so many stories...what you read as blaming or hurtful was an attempt to protect. </p><p></p><p>this is a public forum. people post here with all kinds of backgrounds and motivations. i know i felt hurt and judged at first. we can be insensitive without meaning to be. but i felt support too. i learned to stick up for myself and to discern what was helpful. i still get hurt sometimes. but on balance i feel support. </p><p></p><p>i hope you give us another chance. again</p><p> i am very sorry if i wrote anything that hurt or upset you. it was never my intent.</p><p></p><p>you might find it helpful to do a search and read others' stories that might be similar. just put in key words.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 723779, member: 18958"] i am sorry you feel a lack of support. i can only speak for myself. the last thing i would want is that anything happen to your son. that he be judged or punished. i want him safe and protected and treated.you are doing all of these things. but you are talking with professionals who have a mandate to evaluate potential risk to the other kids. i want you to know that. that your son has an advocate is not a bad thing. my own son had a legal advocate. whose only responsibility was his welfare. that did not mean that either my son or i had done anything wrong. your situation is more complicated due to the other kids in the home. this is not to judge your son. it is to protect everybody. nor do i want you to suffer. i reread your post. you are doing everything right. therapy twice a week. a comprehensive exam. i know you are afraid. i was quite vulnerable when i came here. that was about 2.5 years ago. i think we each of us has gone through so much and heard so many stories...what you read as blaming or hurtful was an attempt to protect. this is a public forum. people post here with all kinds of backgrounds and motivations. i know i felt hurt and judged at first. we can be insensitive without meaning to be. but i felt support too. i learned to stick up for myself and to discern what was helpful. i still get hurt sometimes. but on balance i feel support. i hope you give us another chance. again i am very sorry if i wrote anything that hurt or upset you. it was never my intent. you might find it helpful to do a search and read others' stories that might be similar. just put in key words. [/QUOTE]
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