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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 740218" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>You have an empty house he can stay in? </p><p></p><p>I don’t know what to advise you. What’s the end game? How long would you,let him stay? What steps would you expect him to take not just towards sobriety but towards true independence? What will greater contact and entanglement do to your own health and sanity? Who is overseeing the drug tests and who will ensure he leaves peacefully if he fails? What if he fails a drug test in the middle of January when it’s subzero temps and he has nowhere to Go? How much additional drama can you stand? </p><p></p><p>These are the questions I ask myself with C. It’s why I’ve preferred trying to help him get set up elsewhere as opposed to bringing him home. Because I know if I bring him home it will end in an ugly eviction sooner or later that will break my heart and damage our relationship. Because I can’t see a positive end game in scenario. Because I’d rather risk money than my heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 740218, member: 23349"] You have an empty house he can stay in? I don’t know what to advise you. What’s the end game? How long would you,let him stay? What steps would you expect him to take not just towards sobriety but towards true independence? What will greater contact and entanglement do to your own health and sanity? Who is overseeing the drug tests and who will ensure he leaves peacefully if he fails? What if he fails a drug test in the middle of January when it’s subzero temps and he has nowhere to Go? How much additional drama can you stand? These are the questions I ask myself with C. It’s why I’ve preferred trying to help him get set up elsewhere as opposed to bringing him home. Because I know if I bring him home it will end in an ugly eviction sooner or later that will break my heart and damage our relationship. Because I can’t see a positive end game in scenario. Because I’d rather risk money than my heart. [/QUOTE]
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