Yes.
The thing I am remembering is that the thing all of us say all of the time...and I forget it, in the moment.
All of the comfort, all of the saving, all of the rescuing, did not help. All of that just got us to where we are now. It does not help advance the story. Certainly not my own. And even less, his.
I do not know what he is going to do, and I have to find a way to live with that. But I only have to deal with it an hour or day at a time. There are things I can do. Thank you, New Leaf. I can find something, one thing, and then another to ground myself anew in me and my own life, and make that incrementally better. Thank you, everybody.
