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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 740988" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>For me i feel it was about me and how I wanted my relationshipsto be one of mutual respect. Haha.</p><p></p><p> My sister used to call the police on me all the time. All the time even when I didnt even live in her state. Her reasons were were crazy such as I sent her an email and she didnt want me to. It grew old. She has a lot of problems and dudnt go to therapy untul her latter 50s and could not take the blame for anything. Its not that I wanted to be close to her. Its that I felt like if I didnt take her back after one of the twenty some times she called the cops then cut me off then I felt like I was being a bad person. Finally, belatedly she said something that made me see who she is and that a relationship was hopeless. Then she typed all over the internet that I dared to cut her off (after all the times she had done it to me). And that I had various personality disorders (shrug). She had all the credentials to do that as any teacher aid (another shrug).</p><p></p><p>I had a horrible mean family of origin and was the scapegoat and dont miss most of them. It used to hurt me when my sister, lied about me and put it on the internet but she can call me anything she wants now and its been so long. I dont care. I dont look to see if she is talking about me. It is moot.</p><p></p><p>My sister always thought our problems were just about me. Let her think so. If it stops her from bothering me ever again then it is a good thing. She never worried about how I cared about what she did; if she hurt me or embarassed me by calling the cops for no reason. So now .....</p><p></p><p>I.Dont.Care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 740988, member: 1550"] For me i feel it was about me and how I wanted my relationshipsto be one of mutual respect. Haha. My sister used to call the police on me all the time. All the time even when I didnt even live in her state. Her reasons were were crazy such as I sent her an email and she didnt want me to. It grew old. She has a lot of problems and dudnt go to therapy untul her latter 50s and could not take the blame for anything. Its not that I wanted to be close to her. Its that I felt like if I didnt take her back after one of the twenty some times she called the cops then cut me off then I felt like I was being a bad person. Finally, belatedly she said something that made me see who she is and that a relationship was hopeless. Then she typed all over the internet that I dared to cut her off (after all the times she had done it to me). And that I had various personality disorders (shrug). She had all the credentials to do that as any teacher aid (another shrug). I had a horrible mean family of origin and was the scapegoat and dont miss most of them. It used to hurt me when my sister, lied about me and put it on the internet but she can call me anything she wants now and its been so long. I dont care. I dont look to see if she is talking about me. It is moot. My sister always thought our problems were just about me. Let her think so. If it stops her from bothering me ever again then it is a good thing. She never worried about how I cared about what she did; if she hurt me or embarassed me by calling the cops for no reason. So now ..... I.Dont.Care. [/QUOTE]
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