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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 741342" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>How do you know, One Hurt Mama, that he loves me?Maybe he doesn't anymore.</p><p></p><p>I always had the sense that our great love one for the other had something to do with all of the problems. A little bit like Lil and her son. I always had the sense that the strength of their bond and the need to break it, created pain for them both. It is no surprise that her son was able to grow up and away with the support of another woman. But in my son's case there seems not much hope. He is just not in that place.</p><p></p><p>I feel a little better. Because I am realizing that this is about love. More than worry it is about love. I mean.<em> I am worried. </em>I am especially worried about his liver.</p><p></p><p>I do not know how this will work. But I realize I am not supposed to know. Today is today. <em>Groundwork</em> needs to happen. I need to figure out what that means. For me.</p><p> The reason I am so taken by that word is because I have been doing somatic therapy. Two visits. It is bodywork. From that way of thinking the body is the ground where changes are made, not the mind. The body holds feelings that can be released in a manageable way, feelings that have been held sometimes for lifetimes that have blocked the healthy expression of self. And with that the body/mind has a way to better deal with experience.</p><p></p><p>So, yes. I am going to a type of therapy. But not psychotherapy anymore. I need to think that through. What I need.</p><p></p><p>I had also stopped all of the exercise which was not so smart. I feel weak and labored when I walk, and that feels disheartening. I think I will build that up first, the walking and gym again. I felt so healthy and good about myself when I did that. I think it all fits together.</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 741342, member: 18958"] How do you know, One Hurt Mama, that he loves me?Maybe he doesn't anymore. I always had the sense that our great love one for the other had something to do with all of the problems. A little bit like Lil and her son. I always had the sense that the strength of their bond and the need to break it, created pain for them both. It is no surprise that her son was able to grow up and away with the support of another woman. But in my son's case there seems not much hope. He is just not in that place. I feel a little better. Because I am realizing that this is about love. More than worry it is about love. I mean.[I] I am worried. [/I]I am especially worried about his liver. I do not know how this will work. But I realize I am not supposed to know. Today is today. [I]Groundwork[/I] needs to happen. I need to figure out what that means. For me. The reason I am so taken by that word is because I have been doing somatic therapy. Two visits. It is bodywork. From that way of thinking the body is the ground where changes are made, not the mind. The body holds feelings that can be released in a manageable way, feelings that have been held sometimes for lifetimes that have blocked the healthy expression of self. And with that the body/mind has a way to better deal with experience. So, yes. I am going to a type of therapy. But not psychotherapy anymore. I need to think that through. What I need. I had also stopped all of the exercise which was not so smart. I feel weak and labored when I walk, and that feels disheartening. I think I will build that up first, the walking and gym again. I felt so healthy and good about myself when I did that. I think it all fits together. Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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