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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742208" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa, Tired Out is right. I was a tenant for years. We took care of our property, but we broke rules. In our last apartment we were allowed two small dogs but we also had a quiet inside cat with liver disease and we kept her there too. We would never have left her behind. Nobody ever saw her but us. The property manager lived on there too but she never knew about the cat in four years. There was another lady who kept two cats and didnt want to pay the pet fee so she didnt tell and I didnt tell on her either. These things happen all the time. We mostly rented houses and did not violate big rules and always paid ON TIME but we often bent the pet rule.</p><p></p><p>There was no smoking in our apartment complex but people smoked. You could smell it in the hallway. I am sure pot happened. How could it be stopped? How could meth or coke be stopped? Nobody knew if it was going on.</p><p></p><p>If you are a Landlord all I can tell you is that dont do this job if you expect people to follow every rule. Its not realistic unless you do daily checks and you can't do that with J. It wont work if you do. I think you have to let go of the pot even if its bad for him because he will sleep in the streets, as he has, before giving it up. And even lots of other tenants wont want to live on your property if you are always there. We liked to live our lives without seeing the landlord snd we almost never did see them. Why should J? He will leave. You ARE his parent but he is no longer a child, even though he acts like one. I get it!!!!</p><p></p><p>But I dont think J is going to agree to strict monetary rules. So now it depends on what you want the most....J near you and safe or J following rules too. I dont know that you can have both. I pray you can. </p><p></p><p>I like the way things are going. Keep it up! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Big hugs!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742208, member: 1550"] Copa, Tired Out is right. I was a tenant for years. We took care of our property, but we broke rules. In our last apartment we were allowed two small dogs but we also had a quiet inside cat with liver disease and we kept her there too. We would never have left her behind. Nobody ever saw her but us. The property manager lived on there too but she never knew about the cat in four years. There was another lady who kept two cats and didnt want to pay the pet fee so she didnt tell and I didnt tell on her either. These things happen all the time. We mostly rented houses and did not violate big rules and always paid ON TIME but we often bent the pet rule. There was no smoking in our apartment complex but people smoked. You could smell it in the hallway. I am sure pot happened. How could it be stopped? How could meth or coke be stopped? Nobody knew if it was going on. If you are a Landlord all I can tell you is that dont do this job if you expect people to follow every rule. Its not realistic unless you do daily checks and you can't do that with J. It wont work if you do. I think you have to let go of the pot even if its bad for him because he will sleep in the streets, as he has, before giving it up. And even lots of other tenants wont want to live on your property if you are always there. We liked to live our lives without seeing the landlord snd we almost never did see them. Why should J? He will leave. You ARE his parent but he is no longer a child, even though he acts like one. I get it!!!! But I dont think J is going to agree to strict monetary rules. So now it depends on what you want the most....J near you and safe or J following rules too. I dont know that you can have both. I pray you can. I like the way things are going. Keep it up! :) Big hugs!!! [/QUOTE]
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