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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742586" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Any day works. It can take time to make plans <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Heres an idea which you may or may not like and either is okay. I am not judging.</p><p></p><p>Do you think maybe it would be maybe a better idea for you and J to rekindle your relationship without M? Maybe J would like to get to know you again without M being there, like it was before you met him. It may be more comfortable for him and maybe you too. Do you see J often without M? Go out to eat say as just mom and son? Alone?</p><p></p><p>My husband sees Princess a lot but he is her stepfather and not really engaged in her life and I dont think she would like his input about her life. He came into her picture not until she was twelve. They get along fine but not as a father/daughter. Maybe J. resents that he cant have his own relationship with you, like when he was growing up. That doesnt mean you, M and J cant do things together, but his relationship with M is not the deep love bond you and J has. And he knows it. It is you he needs. M is for you,not necessarily a plus for J. You know best.</p><p></p><p>This is just another idea that may be horrible or not work for you but I thought I would throw it out. The good days he recalls were just you two.</p><p></p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742586, member: 1550"] Any day works. It can take time to make plans :) Heres an idea which you may or may not like and either is okay. I am not judging. Do you think maybe it would be maybe a better idea for you and J to rekindle your relationship without M? Maybe J would like to get to know you again without M being there, like it was before you met him. It may be more comfortable for him and maybe you too. Do you see J often without M? Go out to eat say as just mom and son? Alone? My husband sees Princess a lot but he is her stepfather and not really engaged in her life and I dont think she would like his input about her life. He came into her picture not until she was twelve. They get along fine but not as a father/daughter. Maybe J. resents that he cant have his own relationship with you, like when he was growing up. That doesnt mean you, M and J cant do things together, but his relationship with M is not the deep love bond you and J has. And he knows it. It is you he needs. M is for you,not necessarily a plus for J. You know best. This is just another idea that may be horrible or not work for you but I thought I would throw it out. The good days he recalls were just you two. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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