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I Never Imagined I’d Be Here- Need Advice
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<blockquote data-quote="TwinkleToes" data-source="post: 751519" data-attributes="member: 24409"><p>You’re right, right, right! It absolutely puts me in a vulnerable position if I relied upon her to put my things on the porch. One more way for her to say , screw you! Then the anger, hurt and disbelief starts all over again. It’s like picking off a scab. It infuriates me that I’m going to loose everything I loaned her in good faith, but it’s going to be a very expensive lesson that I won’t make again. I’ve practically loaned her the contents to fill an entire apartment. Some things I don’t care about, others I do. I see what you’re saying though. As long as I am unable to release the fantasy of getting my things back, she’s wielding power over me. If I’m able to let these possessions go, she has nothing other than my grand, which is huge. Part of me is hanging on the items at the pawn shop like a dog with a bone. I feel that I chose that particular way of helping so that it would require her involvement. Just going to the bank and cashing a check is too easy. I guess that backfired. I never imagined she was capable of handling this how she has. Erin and the baby are scheduled to go to Connecticut in a few days to see her dad and stepmom. She’s treated them badly also and promised to visit about a month ago and then stopped communicating when Erin and I had the big blow up. I’ll be shocked if she gets on the plane. I want you to know, Copa, you’ve been VERY helpful. Muah!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TwinkleToes, post: 751519, member: 24409"] You’re right, right, right! It absolutely puts me in a vulnerable position if I relied upon her to put my things on the porch. One more way for her to say , screw you! Then the anger, hurt and disbelief starts all over again. It’s like picking off a scab. It infuriates me that I’m going to loose everything I loaned her in good faith, but it’s going to be a very expensive lesson that I won’t make again. I’ve practically loaned her the contents to fill an entire apartment. Some things I don’t care about, others I do. I see what you’re saying though. As long as I am unable to release the fantasy of getting my things back, she’s wielding power over me. If I’m able to let these possessions go, she has nothing other than my grand, which is huge. Part of me is hanging on the items at the pawn shop like a dog with a bone. I feel that I chose that particular way of helping so that it would require her involvement. Just going to the bank and cashing a check is too easy. I guess that backfired. I never imagined she was capable of handling this how she has. Erin and the baby are scheduled to go to Connecticut in a few days to see her dad and stepmom. She’s treated them badly also and promised to visit about a month ago and then stopped communicating when Erin and I had the big blow up. I’ll be shocked if she gets on the plane. I want you to know, Copa, you’ve been VERY helpful. Muah! [/QUOTE]
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