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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 677898" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>I am so sorry. Kids like ours with mental and drug addictions, lose first integrity, then empathy for others. It's all about them- they blame others vs. themselves. If it were me, I would call these nice people and tell them what the truth is- you had conditions set for her in order for her to live in your home. Since she refused those conditions, she is not allowed to live in your home. Don't allow her to smear your name.</p><p></p><p>Few months ago when son was with heroin addict girlfriend and he obviously on something, told a friend that he was going to call Social Security and tell them I was misusing his money as a Payee. He was saying this because I wouldn't give him more money then I had already given him. Well, this friend called me and told me this. So I called up my son and said, How dare you make that accusation. He denied saying it. So I said if you dare to make that I would call SS and remove myself as payee and tell them the money I have been giving you for food and clothes has been going for drugs and you will be cut off and banned for life with SS.</p><p></p><p>I stopped him dead in his tracks with his drug induced threats. In my experience with son, I can't allow him to smear me in any way without holding him accountable for his false threats. Fast forward, he moved down south, is not with with crazy girlfriend and he is doing well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 677898, member: 19951"] I am so sorry. Kids like ours with mental and drug addictions, lose first integrity, then empathy for others. It's all about them- they blame others vs. themselves. If it were me, I would call these nice people and tell them what the truth is- you had conditions set for her in order for her to live in your home. Since she refused those conditions, she is not allowed to live in your home. Don't allow her to smear your name. Few months ago when son was with heroin addict girlfriend and he obviously on something, told a friend that he was going to call Social Security and tell them I was misusing his money as a Payee. He was saying this because I wouldn't give him more money then I had already given him. Well, this friend called me and told me this. So I called up my son and said, How dare you make that accusation. He denied saying it. So I said if you dare to make that I would call SS and remove myself as payee and tell them the money I have been giving you for food and clothes has been going for drugs and you will be cut off and banned for life with SS. I stopped him dead in his tracks with his drug induced threats. In my experience with son, I can't allow him to smear me in any way without holding him accountable for his false threats. Fast forward, he moved down south, is not with with crazy girlfriend and he is doing well. [/QUOTE]
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