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I think I am ready to give up on her
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<blockquote data-quote="Lilliana" data-source="post: 94144" data-attributes="member: 4032"><p>Thank you, Heather. Thank you so much. It felt like such a relief to not have you judge me. Thank you. I am just beside myself tonight. I mean, I don't know what I could have done different to be a better parent to her. I have never hit her, never abused her, always have advocated for her, always have been there for her emotionally. Always have provided for her. I don't know what else I could have done. That said, am I perfect? Of course, no. Probably I could be accused of not being tough enough on her. Probably I always wanted to believe the best in her, and I would just give her another chance, and then another, and another. I am so mad at myself.</p><p></p><p>No, she is off the Luvox for like 10 days now. Still her behavior is unbelievably explosive and unpredictable. Last night she violated curfew by 40 minutes. She was out with two boys that I have never heard of before, and she was unreachable. When I was frantic and upset when she came home at 1:40 a.m. she acted like I was crazy or something. I think my husband and I will divorce (after about 20 years of marriage) over this. Seriously. Thank you for being there and not judging me, Heather. What a nice gift that was from you tonight. You don't know how that helped. Thank you again.</p><p></p><p>L.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lilliana, post: 94144, member: 4032"] Thank you, Heather. Thank you so much. It felt like such a relief to not have you judge me. Thank you. I am just beside myself tonight. I mean, I don't know what I could have done different to be a better parent to her. I have never hit her, never abused her, always have advocated for her, always have been there for her emotionally. Always have provided for her. I don't know what else I could have done. That said, am I perfect? Of course, no. Probably I could be accused of not being tough enough on her. Probably I always wanted to believe the best in her, and I would just give her another chance, and then another, and another. I am so mad at myself. No, she is off the Luvox for like 10 days now. Still her behavior is unbelievably explosive and unpredictable. Last night she violated curfew by 40 minutes. She was out with two boys that I have never heard of before, and she was unreachable. When I was frantic and upset when she came home at 1:40 a.m. she acted like I was crazy or something. I think my husband and I will divorce (after about 20 years of marriage) over this. Seriously. Thank you for being there and not judging me, Heather. What a nice gift that was from you tonight. You don't know how that helped. Thank you again. L. [/QUOTE]
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