Please let us know.....I can emagine how overwhelmed and disappointed you must feel!
To just go through that whole scenario AGAIN....of.....agh they ALSO DON'T GET IT!!!!! And THEY are supose to be the ones that do!!!!! I am so proud of you for keeping your cool!!!!!! I do think, though....that this is something that could be sorted out quickly! This Occupational Therapist (OT) must just be guided in the right direction and DROP HER ATTITUDE! Strange my oldest sons Occupational Therapist (OT) also has an attitude! 
Buddy....sorry to ask.....you said you were thinking of getting yourself checked out physicly.....how is that going mommy? Are you still on track of looking after yourself? Maybe a little bit of "feeling good" pills to just uplift the mood and help with the bad pms spells you are going through? Lots of hugs!!!!,