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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 185097" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>- but we are allowing him to chose the way he wants to live - </p><p></p><p>Hi Stands,</p><p>I may be nitpicking here but I still think your mindset is that you have some control over how he lives. Just the fact that you say you are allowing him--as if you have given him permission to live the way he wants to live--suggests that you are still enmeshed. He is 24 years old, he doesn't need anybody to allow him to live as he wishes, he will do it anyway.</p><p></p><p>--Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 185097, member: 3208"] - but we are allowing him to chose the way he wants to live - Hi Stands, I may be nitpicking here but I still think your mindset is that you have some control over how he lives. Just the fact that you say you are allowing him--as if you have given him permission to live the way he wants to live--suggests that you are still enmeshed. He is 24 years old, he doesn't need anybody to allow him to live as he wishes, he will do it anyway. --Jane [/QUOTE]
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