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"I was married to a Narcisit, and survived, why I still love him, I don't know why?"
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 265110" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I think there are alot of women out there that can totally relate to what you are saying. </p><p> </p><p>I fell in "like" with someone years ago. It was a plutonic love but was very deep he was like a brother to me and there trully was alot of energy and fun involved with our relationship. It was probably what would now be classified as an 'emotional affair' but the term was not yet coined back then. We were business associates and worked together alot and then became friends and shared family vacations and holidays, meals, parties confidences, everything. I was totally betrayed by him, the details of which I do not wish to discuss. Suffice it to say, I lost almost every friend I had because of his betrayal. In spite of the hurt and lost social circle and I still pined over him. I had to go through hypnosis before I could even fuction properly. Every joyous occasion in my life for 8 years was shared with him. I thought we would be friends forever. It was many years before I could get through a day without thinking of him. He would just pop into my mind for no reason at all. I don't know why but I just couldn't let him go completely out of my heart. I think I was addicted to him and his energy. Ten years went by before I could honestly say that I truly "KNEW" he wasn't the person or friend I thought him to be. I was then healed of him. That was two years more than the friendship had been! </p><p> </p><p>In your case with your husband, there was so much more emotional stuff involved. There was omantic love, kids, plans for a future together, etc. These are not dreams that die easily. You will get over him though. I have many divorced friends that can attest to that! -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 265110, member: 2315"] I think there are alot of women out there that can totally relate to what you are saying. I fell in "like" with someone years ago. It was a plutonic love but was very deep he was like a brother to me and there trully was alot of energy and fun involved with our relationship. It was probably what would now be classified as an 'emotional affair' but the term was not yet coined back then. We were business associates and worked together alot and then became friends and shared family vacations and holidays, meals, parties confidences, everything. I was totally betrayed by him, the details of which I do not wish to discuss. Suffice it to say, I lost almost every friend I had because of his betrayal. In spite of the hurt and lost social circle and I still pined over him. I had to go through hypnosis before I could even fuction properly. Every joyous occasion in my life for 8 years was shared with him. I thought we would be friends forever. It was many years before I could get through a day without thinking of him. He would just pop into my mind for no reason at all. I don't know why but I just couldn't let him go completely out of my heart. I think I was addicted to him and his energy. Ten years went by before I could honestly say that I truly "KNEW" he wasn't the person or friend I thought him to be. I was then healed of him. That was two years more than the friendship had been! In your case with your husband, there was so much more emotional stuff involved. There was omantic love, kids, plans for a future together, etc. These are not dreams that die easily. You will get over him though. I have many divorced friends that can attest to that! -RM [/QUOTE]
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