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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 509035" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>WHAT??????????? Please tell me there is a court order against this father? Does he have visitation or is he banned from visitation? Was the father's information put on registration forms? OMW this has the makings of a lawsuit all over it! If the Father isn't on the registration forms, it is ILLEGAL for the school to contact him. It is ILLEGAL for the school to contact or transmit personal information to anyone not on registration forms. If such things were allowed, the Foster care system would be an even bigger mess than it is now. (No this is no relation to you but think about it. Courts place kids in foster care and then school deals with the parents kids were taken from instead? I think not. Just like your situation now.)</p><p></p><p>Please call back and/or fax the ppl you contacted last week and give them all this new information.</p><p></p><p>AND they cannot refuse to talk to your mom if you invite her to be part of the team.</p><p></p><p>AND one trick my advocate taught me is to clear your entire day, and when they try to wrap up the meeting before anything is satisfactorily settled you let them know you are available ALL day. NO RUSH.</p><p></p><p>And if they won't take minutes, there are wonderful little devices called voice recorders. Place it right in the middle of the table.</p><p></p><p>AND if you can't be there physically, they can conference you in via phone or even video skype.</p><p></p><p>AND BS! They are just blowing more smoke at you because they know nothing about restraining orders. You go and talk to the police department about them. Unfortunately it may be difficult for you to get one because they attend the same school, but NOT because he sent a message asking to be left alone. You can, however, get that "not in the same room" provision put into his IEP.</p><p></p><p>So sorry for you all that you have to deal with this KOI.</p><p></p><p>by the way you can and should sign guardianship papers for your Mom. This in no way infringes or limits your rights as a parent. It just gives her rights to make decisions for him which are reserved strictly for parents - school and medical decisions. If there's an emergency, you want her to be able to get him the care he needs without having to track you down.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 509035, member: 11965"] WHAT??????????? Please tell me there is a court order against this father? Does he have visitation or is he banned from visitation? Was the father's information put on registration forms? OMW this has the makings of a lawsuit all over it! If the Father isn't on the registration forms, it is ILLEGAL for the school to contact him. It is ILLEGAL for the school to contact or transmit personal information to anyone not on registration forms. If such things were allowed, the Foster care system would be an even bigger mess than it is now. (No this is no relation to you but think about it. Courts place kids in foster care and then school deals with the parents kids were taken from instead? I think not. Just like your situation now.) Please call back and/or fax the ppl you contacted last week and give them all this new information. AND they cannot refuse to talk to your mom if you invite her to be part of the team. AND one trick my advocate taught me is to clear your entire day, and when they try to wrap up the meeting before anything is satisfactorily settled you let them know you are available ALL day. NO RUSH. And if they won't take minutes, there are wonderful little devices called voice recorders. Place it right in the middle of the table. AND if you can't be there physically, they can conference you in via phone or even video skype. AND BS! They are just blowing more smoke at you because they know nothing about restraining orders. You go and talk to the police department about them. Unfortunately it may be difficult for you to get one because they attend the same school, but NOT because he sent a message asking to be left alone. You can, however, get that "not in the same room" provision put into his IEP. So sorry for you all that you have to deal with this KOI. by the way you can and should sign guardianship papers for your Mom. This in no way infringes or limits your rights as a parent. It just gives her rights to make decisions for him which are reserved strictly for parents - school and medical decisions. If there's an emergency, you want her to be able to get him the care he needs without having to track you down. [/QUOTE]
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